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I am feeling completely worthless when I am trying to do something for my dear bro, because it seems like things not helping at all. I am trying hard every day to show them that life is very pleasant gift, but all I can say sounds so cliche that I wanna die. We are talking very not much recently, because of them having problems with internet and not receiving my messages and me not receiving their. I want to help them, cause it seems like they have no passion to live and just making a whole mess of their life with how they are living. I think they have no goal because of their depression and tunnel thinking.

What can I do for my bro? Offer ANYTHING literally anything, like the moat reckless things that are on your mind, cause I am ready to do anything as long as I can afford it financially (I don't mean to be the guy who looks on money so much, but I just don't have any right now, I would love to buy tickets to my bro and fly to them, but I simply don't have 500 euros, I am trying hard to gwt them, but it will take a year and help needed NOW)

Please, I would really thankfull to see what you all think of this situation, help me help my dear bro, it's all I want.

(P.S. I don't know how to not love like a dog loves his owner, I will do anything for my bro)

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hypercat54

You seem to be asking for donations of money? Are you?

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Yantryingtohelpbro in reply tohypercat54

Am I? Well, kinda no, I don't put any of things you can donate me with, like credit card or smth. I was thinking of an opportunity to ask for your money, but it's kinda not fair, and I think like that as well. Of course I need money ASAP, but I know that I can do it by myself, I believe in myself after all. I will be able to do it and find money, so dw about that, I will not get yours. I remember writing this post in state of panic, that is okay rn, cause my bro finally answered me, so I am fine ig, at least for now. Sorry if I made you think that I need donations.

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Dolphin14

Hi

Well I think you or your bro have to work hard to save money. You can't do anything without the funds

I hope you can see each other soon

🐬

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Yantryingtohelpbro in reply toDolphin14

Thanks, Dolphin! <3

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cashew78

Making yourself available to listen to them without judgement is a good first step. If you can be that for them, they will tell you what they need to get through this.

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Yantryingtohelpbro in reply tocashew78

Thank you, I will do that <3

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