My sister called me a psychopath........

[Lunazay]

I don't know why my sisters treat me so horribly even though I did nothing wrong. One calls me a psychopath and the other calls me a racist. I don't even talk to them anymore cause all they do is talk shit about me. I'm literally still a teenager and they do this shit. I don't cause harm or like to cause harm to people. I literally am always the first to help people in my family. They even said they like talking shit about people and they think its fun. I always tell them to stop and they start attacking me with their words. Anyone has this happen to them???????

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Yes I have a couple of middle aged sisters that are bullies. One in particular is a bad passive aggresive fighter and I've only lately fully understood that it is something they are behind (not something I did wrong).

It is very good that you recognize it now as being their problem, not yours.

Try to get a positive, supportive person(s) in your life. Don't be like me and waste years thinking you can help them. Make yourself strong and give love to people who will show you respect and treat you right.

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Hey i have a similar problem i have 2 older sisters the one who is 4 years older than me is just so complicated.She is taugh she never cries and everytime that i show some kind of emotions she always say that im a baby.She put me down for nothing when i say nothing.I always do everything to make her fell better and when i need a favor usually answer is no.But she is my sister there is good time to you know i love her.When they piss you off just go dont show them that you care or just smile.The best answer on people that is making fun of you is smile or pretend that you dont care if you need to talk im here☺️

[fauxartist]

It is unfortunate that we cannot pick our family members like we can pick our friends. But it does not mean we have to except bad behavior. Like with anyone else in your life....boundaries.... I get along with a brother and my sister, the other boys are like their mother....I love all four of my sister’s kids....and it's mutual. But I have no time for my other brothers opinions....I'd rather have an extra roll of toilet paper for what it's worth.

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I remember singing the “sticks and stones may break my bones but names will never hurt me” song a lot with my sibling.

We can’t choose our family, but you can look at this as temporary, one day you’ll leave home to peruse a life of your own. They can’t bully or tease you if they aren’t around.

For now stick to friends and family that are supportive, let the others play childish name calling games.

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Yes, when my sister was driving with mom and my husband to a psych ward to see me after I had a breakdown because of childhood abuse, she told them I was a compulsive liar and made it all up. She has shared her experiences with sexual abuse with the same family member. Wtf? I disowned her after that and my brother twenty years ago. I'm better now. 😁

[PeaceandWar]

Wow. This really hit home for me. I don’t like hurting people but people still intentionally hurt me. It’s a different kind of hurt when it’s family. I’ve been called crazy and had my illness made fun of by the people in my family. They’ve used my illness against me by hurting me and when I reacted they point their fingers saying look how crazy she is. I let them go. There’s enough cruelty in the world and I won’t let it turn my heart dark.