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Hi, I'm a 22 boy studying at colloge. I was talking with chatgpt about the fact that I feel too alone and my problem in finding a girlfriend or a romantic partner that could satisfy my need for love and affection. It told me to come here and ask for help.So... I'm here!

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hypercat54

This is a site for sufferers of anxiety and depression.

Not sure if you are expecting a dating site?

How can we help?

ChatGPT you’re using it needs an update

Hey, I'm sorry you're feeling alone. Many people experience this, and it can lead to sadness over time. I’d like to offer some advice. Try to socialize with one or two friends regularly—it’s important to make it a priority. If you see someone you're interested in, consider asking them out in person. It might be scary, and they might say no, but taking the chance is worth it. When you meet someone new, suggest going for coffee instead of lunch or dinner. This way, if it doesn’t work out, it’s a brief and low-pressure meeting. Man, I wish I was young with no depression or PTSD. I still had some fun back in the day. Don't llet time slip away behind that computer.

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TyrSwimmer_Sac

Hey PoseyLane. Your advice was so spot on. I couldn't have put it better myself I I have the been in the same boat as Ulrich _Schmerz.

Hey Ulrich_Schmerz I grew up with with severe clinical depression and suicidal ideations so that her advice is excellent given the information you've provided. Still it is often said easier said than done. You should know that the buddy system may help. Friends are a great way to meet others and support from one's peers may ease and/or counter any self doubt that may merge. Know that activities you're interested in might give you a gateway to meeting others such as recreational activities, athletics, clubs, etc. This is a milestone time in your life and the possibilities are there for your to reach out for. I myself picked swimming to meet others and it certainly attracted a lot of attention, but your niche will be of your choosing. Just be safe, use your wise mind and have fun with your exploration.

Should you ever need reinforcement on this please keep reaching out for help. You'll give the support here most certainly. Cheers brother.

Oh yeah if you need one on one chat feel free to direct message.

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