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I haven't been on here for years now but I needed somewhere to go. I used another forum but they took a dislike to me trying to look out for vulnerable women on there. What's the world coming to when people go out to take advantage and lie to others for their own gain it's bad enough when you feel okay , but when you're trying to cope with mental health and finding life difficult to then be used it makes me sick.

Hope you're all managing as well as you can. I'm just tired and worn down by life and disappointed with others behaviour.

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kenster1

Hi Riz blast from the past seeing you show up here strange seeing you here that other forum makes me feel worse rather than better. you done a great job trying to help others and seldom brought up your own issues maybe some are a bit jealous.

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Rizo1 in reply to kenster1

Hi Kenster . It's good to see you. I get the same about that place. We try to help others but it's not always appreciated. Makes you feel like crap. It's supposed be a support forum for mental health not to make people feel worse. Just glad you told me about this site too 🫂🫂

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kenster1 in reply to Rizo1

yeah shame was a decent forum before it changed over more freedom here to post true feelings and not feel worse admin here allow you to do that. everyone who reaches out are usually selfish to their own needs some people don`t take that on board.

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Rizo1 in reply to kenster1

That's so true Kenster. It's gone like a popularity contest on there. When you show concern or make a complaint about behaviour they just ignore it aswell. I'll go back in a few weeks because of a few of the ladies on there. But I feel bad when I do post especially if it's not positive . It's like it's frowned upon to be sad on there.

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Dolphin14

Rizo1

I'm sorry people were intolerant to you trying to keep others safe. Sometimes others don't see the full picture.

You are welcome here :)

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Rizo1 in reply to Dolphin14

Thank you Dolphin. I appreciate that. I've always found people here to be very kind and understanding. I've got some lovely friends on the other site too. But there's not much safeguards for the vulnerable on there and it's become a place for some to go out to take advantage. Hope you're doing okay 🫂

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Dolphin14 in reply to Rizo1

We do try to work together to keep this a safe community so we welcome you and any help you are willing to give us

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Rizo1 in reply to Dolphin14

Thank you Dolphin. I'll try to help where I can. I'm grateful for the support I recieve aswell. Using forums for three years has helped me , but also caused much upset too. Due to others actions

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Dolphin14 in reply to Rizo1

This is a great place. There are times where things get stressful and it's good to step away and take care of yourself

We all need each other here

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xxxsunflowerxxx

Hi Rizzy & Kenster yes it’s me from the other forum too. Rizzy I’m glad I found you 😘😘💛

Twinkly it’s nice to see a fellow sunflower 🌻 👋🏻😁

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kenster1 in reply to xxxsunflowerxxx

Hi xxxsunflowerxxx and welcome gosh that other site will be running out of members.

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xxxsunflowerxxx in reply to kenster1

Hi Kenny Im gonna recruit them all over to here 😂 🚌 🚶‍♀️ 🚶‍♂️🚶 just finding my way about it’s a little different to say the least! In a good way 👍🏼 nice to see you. Hope you’re doing okay 💛

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Dolphin14 in reply to xxxsunflowerxxx

Welcome!

Is the Kenster trying to close the other site down? Lol

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Rizo1 in reply to Dolphin14

Hey Dolphin. Maybe that wouldn't be a bad thing 😂😂💜💜🤗🤗

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Dolphin14 in reply to Rizo1

Not at all!! Bring them all over:)

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Rizo1 in reply to xxxsunflowerxxx

Heyyyyy Sunnyflower. You found me . I'm glad you're here . We'll have to bring everyone.. erm maybe not everyone 😂😂 over. 🤗🤗🤗🫶🫶🌻🌻💜💜💜😘😘

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xxxsunflowerxxx in reply to Rizo1

Erm yes some can remain there Rizzy 😂

I have another recruit. I think I should possibly get commission 😂 😘🤗💛

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Rizo1 in reply to xxxsunflowerxxx

We are a bit fussy 😆You'll be moderating here at the rate 😂😂😘🤗🤗💜💜💐💐

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Indiegal

Welcome back. I'm sorry you had that experience on another forum. I've come on here sporadically over a few years, but everyone has been supportive when I've posted or commented. Hopefully you will find this to be better for you.

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Rizo1 in reply to Indiegal

Hi Indie Girl. Thank you, I used this forum more regularly years ago. Kenster told me about it. I've always found people to be very welcoming and friendly here. Hope you're doing okay. 💜💜💜🤗🤗🤗🫶🫶💐💐💐

is it ok to share sites name?

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Rizo1

Hi Twinkly. Thank you so much. I'm over sensitive too. Take things to heart a lot. It's nice to be amongst kindred spirts here. Hope you're doing okay as you can be 💜💜💜😄🫶🫶

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Rizo1

Hi Twinkly, Ohhhh your cat is gorgeous. What a beauty. My cat sadly passed away many years ago now. But just love seeing his face when I'm on my computer☺️.💜💜💜

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Rizo1

Thank you , such beautiful flowers. That's very kind of you. I don't know how to send pictures on here 💜💜💜🤗🤗🤗🫶🫶💐💐💐💐

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Rizo1

Hi Craig . How are you? I'm not sure if it's allowed. I still use the site as I've made friends on there who I'd miss very much if I ever left. But it's changed a lot since I joined there. It can make me feel worse mentally ironic really for a support site

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Hey Rizo1. I’m outstanding. You? Yea I’m not positive either. You would think that in this world of everything scrutinized by “Yelp” it would maybe be ok to warn other to tread litely before getting caught up in a group that ain’t quite so loving as here.

Keep Battlingly

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Rizo1

This is our cat that we have now. He adopted us 🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛🐈‍⬛💜💜🤗🤗

My cat pstt
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Cosmia

You have a big beautiful heart lovely Rizo, looking out for people. I'm really proud of you. 🤗🤗❤💜💚

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Rizo1 in reply to Cosmia

Thank you Cosmia for your kindness and friendship. I'm very proud of you too. I know you struggle a lot like me. We'll help one another best we can. Keep reaching out here . 💜💜❤️❤️💚💚👫👫😘🫶🫶🫶🫂🫂🫂

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