So I've had a pretty "hard" manual lifestyle and have arthritis in both shoulders, already had cortisone injections in both shoulders, so that tells me I have worn out my joints, also to throw into the mix I've now got chronic back ache,and my left hip is "twinging " I can't sleep with my back properly, I constantly ache, I honestly don't believe any " exercise " will cure my ailments, should be in bed but still struggling to even contemplate going to bed, these young pyhsio's need to be in my body to understand the pain, its all the dam hard grafting in all weather's has caused this problem as well as hitting 60 Last year, and the government wants to increase retirement age!!!!Certain people who've had a psychical demanding lifestyle are already on worn out, I've done hod carrying, filled numerous skips by hand digging footings, been on knees for years tiling, even plastering full houses, yes a jack of all trades, plumbing as well, I even started to struggle having a shave in front of the mirror with my constant back ache,all the simple tasks are getting impossible, and a bath is out of the question, can't push myself out, and I didn't think old age would bring so many problems all of a sudden, I feel
"Young in my head" stuck with a body that's letting me down, yes I feel mentally like Peter Pan, but trying to accept these ailments is frustrating to say the least, sorry for the long post, but hopefully everyone is keeping well, and chat again soon, that's if anyone is interested ❤️ 💙 😊
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I've survived two major scares 😱 in my life with a serious ruptured appendix, I was in a mess for 3 months after fill open surgery, and in another occasion had a internal stomach bleed, on both occasions I never thought I was saying my goodbye to the world, obviously then I realised I'm not invincible , these are things you know you will hopefully recover from, but with age and a physical demanding lifestyle time has caught me by surprise 😮. Now I'm a type of person who just gets on with things, but trying to adjust my mindset to these ailments is another matter , I'm stubborn with many things health wise and recently had a episode of severe cluster headaches, these lasted for over 7 months, now I can't tell you how debilitating these headaches are, they've been called "suicide " headaches because of the intense pains that they cause,yes they had me crying in agony, rocking on the end of the bed,wide awake at stupid o'clock in the early hours when I should've been fast asleep, I honestly don't know how much longer I could tolerate these brutal headaches , hence the saying suicide headaches, when you have dark thought's about these health issues they take you too places you'd rather not be, dealing with each different aches and pains starts chipping away at you,until I try to understand my health issues I can't get my head around how quickly things start to cause problems, and now I'm in limbo, the brain won't accept I'm having these issues,but I've got a little devil tapping me on my shoulder letting me know your not running away from me 👹
So it's not a straightforward journey as I expected, life can have some nice surprises, but this is causing me a bit of a problem to say the least, the "list " of ailments are mounting up, and these aren't "nice " surprises " I'm at the stage where things are getting difficult and simple tasks are no longer easy, this is going to be a long road ahead with different problems,an I ready for more health issues, NO, but I'll see what other goodies this body can handle, and the journey continues with anticipation, yes I have hope, but deep down I expect more nasty surprises, I'm on a journey into unknown waters, I hope my inflatable jacket keeps my head above water if you can understand, I don't fancy doing full time on the planet if things start to get rough, , then you start thinking what's the point, ah well I'm needing some sleep hopefully , but I expect my headaches to feel upto another session, these are brewing now, and I thought I'd got rid of them,and so it's a pattern that's not I enjoy, oh toodle pip for now and thanks for your great post and 😇night, night 😴
Unless we have been workers in the building trades, we really have no idea of the trials and tribulations aging workers face.
When you mentioned physiotherapy is of no assistance, perhaps you need a different kind of therapist. Occupational therapists or OTs for short are professionally equipped to
1. help if you are having difficulty with everyday tasks — that is, the tasks that occupy you.
2. help you maintain, regain, or improve your independence using different techniques and equipment.
3. work with people of all ages and social groups.
4. ask about your daily activities and help you find ways to function more effectively and confidently.
If your doctor refers you to an OT, government schemes may cover the cost.
I found this link to UK website which should be relevant for you
Thanks for your reply, another "night " of poor sleep only had around 3 and a half hours sleep , feel like a zombie with the lack of sleep 😴 boy running on fumes, probably have a nap during the day 🙄
Hi there I think your problems are hormonal - you are lacking estrogen
The way it works is men make some estrogen from their testosterone bc of your age your testosterone is declining and your estrogen is declining along with it
Headaches and aching joints are symptoms of womens menopause - your doctor won't prescribe you estrogen but you could go to Boots or Holland&Barrett and buy a suppliment for the menopause say it's for your wife if you feel embarrassed
One thing I can recommend is flaxseed oil which you can buy from Sainsburys it's next to the olive oil have a desert spoon a day
Ah i get B12 injections every 3 months, this is required as I have problems with the deficiency, the headaches are a diagnosed symptom that can happen to certain group's of individuals, these are clinical proven, and only certain medicines help when an attack comes on, my joints are worn out from grafting for most of my life, was in the forces for several years, and had a physically exhausting period being a superb long distance runner, I once came 2nd in a marathon to a PT instructor who came 6th in the New York marathon , I was still under training and I broke the time reckon on a battle fitness test, so I look back on my past and no I'm feeling the effects of a manual life, I shall definitely enquire about your recommendation, and I appreciate your input!!!1👍👏
Do us men get hot flushes and have a short fuse 😳🤣, I think I'm fairly "normal " and try and laugh my way through things, er " doctor " can you put me on the pill 💊 🤣
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