My family is cursed

[Against_the_current]

So mom told me what happened and instead of her being relieved grandma is not dying, she's like "problems stack, my late uncle had a girlfriend that faked our signatures (she was a major, this place has the most corrupt majors) and wants all their heritage and also made him take a 15 000 loan and now that he's gone, mom owes this loan. And also my sister has a boyfriend. I never expected this from her. I feel guilty. Like i got a boyfriend, but only because i need an unpaid therapist, im asexual and i thought my sister is too. And turns out she had a boyfriend. I can't proceed this. I got one at 23 and because i need help. And my BetterHelp subscription expired yesterday.

[hypercat54]

Sounds like a fairly normal dysfunctional family to me! There is no such thing as a perfect family you know without arguments and mistrust sometimes. This is life.

[SoporRose]

AtC,

You write ":So mom told me what happened and instead of her being relieved grandma is not dying": I think I must have missed one of your posts and I can't find it and have no idea to what you are referring here.

I'm sorry about the uncle's girlfriend. Has you Mom reported the fraud? That should be t he first thing she does.

And I am happy for your sister! A boyfriend at her age is normal and healthy. I know you worry about her, so I hope you can be pleased that she is doing just what she ought be doing right now. I know you want a more normal life for yourself; eventually you'll get one that suits you. I believe in you.