My sister is sick

[Against_the_current]

I wrote about how mom lost it and treated to send me and sis to dad who has a baby. I'm anxious since then. To me things calmed down but today i went to a walk in attempt to feel better but i didn't stop having thoughts of mom dumping her and insulting her that i felt unwell and caught the first bus to go home and see what's going on. Sis was sick. She's really unwell. She's really nauseus and dizzy and her head hurts. She looks like she's about to pass out. And dad isn't here. And mom's inadequate. And i'm inadequate too because i'm anxious as hell and trying to hide it so i don't bother sis. Now mom's annoying too. She tells sis "go to sleep" multiple times and sis is telling her she's about to throw up. Mom won't listen. It's early to sleep and sis feels unwell. I know this feeling. If my sister is sick because of my parents' bullshit, my heart will break. Really, my heart won't take it. I really hope they aren't the cause. I really hope i'm just anxious. But she's sick for real and i'm scared.

Edit : Mom's mean at her while she's so unwell 😭😭😭

[Sam1109]

Looks like you have to be strong here and help sis. If she is young you need to make sure she sees a doctor. Being sick like that can be psychological but can be other things too. Be strong. Tell yourself you have no choice but to help sis get better. It’s a tough situation sounds like. Make sure you are both trying to keep yourselves calm. Divorces happen and you can’t change that so all you can do it make sure it doesn’t hurt you. Everything gets better. Think about a year from now. All this will be just a memory. Your life will go on despite whatever your parents do. Just have to endure while it’s fresh and hard to deal with. Both of you should see a doctor. It always makes you feel better. Hope your sis feels better soon. Two of you go out and keep yourselves distracted somehow. Be each other’s support system.

[Against_the_current in reply to Sam1109]

Thank you. Really should

[Work_in_progress]

I’m so sorry you have to endure what you are going through. You need to be strong and make sure she sees a Dr. or at least have one see her at home. Maybe a neighbor can help you with your sister or a relative. Make sure she sips fluids and she doesn’t have a high fever.

Praying for you both.

[Against_the_current in reply to Work_in_progress]

Thanks. Unfortunately we're not allowed, mom's a pharmasist and we rely on that only

[Mrspjsmom]

You have so much going on. It's ok to be worried about your sister. Unfortunately since your Mom has issues you may have to take care of your sister. I hope she feels better soon. Sending both of you positive thoughts and HUGS ❤

[Against_the_current in reply to Mrspjsmom]

Thanks ❤️