Feel Insane

[Therapist104]

I feel insane. My own mother told me to kill myself because I'm such a problem. She called me psychotic. She said that she hates my guts. She also said that I need help if I thought she loved me.

[Lve2dance]

No shade to your mom, but it seems that she needs help. It is terrible that people we look to for unconditional love can hurt us so badly. I'm sending you the biggest 🤗 hugthrough this message . We are here for you. It's probably not a bad idea if you want to talk in person to a third party who is unbiased and listen to you. My friends are great and mean well 😁 but sometimes my therapist knows best to say because she's trained and may not say unintentionally triggering words

[Therapist104 in reply to Lve2dance]

Thx, that helped

[Lve2dance in reply to Therapist104]

🙏😁

[Therapist104 in reply to Lve2dance]

🙏

[Shysteve]

Hi I'm Steve , sorry to hear of your troubles,,but please don't take what people say in anger as gospel ,I'm sure most of us have said things that cut to the core with out thinking of the ramifications,there's many a good ear here if you need,best wishes steve

[Therapist104 in reply to Shysteve]

Hi Steve. Thank you for your consideration. I will take what you said into consideration as well. Best regards, Jay

[Dolphin14]

My mother told one of my sisters that.

I'm sorry she said those things to you. Those words are very unkind and hurt to the core.

Are you getting help for your issues?

🐬

[Therapist104 in reply to Dolphin14]

No, I'm currently not. I do see a therapist tomorrow though,and I'm going to tell her what she said

[Dolphin14 in reply to Therapist104]

That's perfect. I'm happy to hear that. Most def tell the therapist what she said and how it made you feel.

I'm so sorry you were spoken to like this

[Therapist104 in reply to Dolphin14]

It's ok. It's not your fault. I will definitely tell my therapist

[Dolphin14 in reply to Therapist104]

I was raised on negative, cruel words. It just saddens me.

Best of luck with your therapist

[Therapist104 in reply to Dolphin14]

I hope you don't have those words to you now

[Dolphin14 in reply to Therapist104]

My mother has passed on. I no longer have the words said to me but they did cause damage.

Therapy helps to heal the wounds

[Therapist104 in reply to Dolphin14]

Yes it does.

[Arymretep]

I feel so sad reading these posts from people who had Mothers who didn’t love them, I lost my Mother many years ago but i think about her and my Dad every day and count my blessings for the love and caring I received from them , I’m so sorry you didn’t receive that, it’s your Mothers loss .

[Therapist104 in reply to Arymretep]

I know.It sucks...