Family Drama

[Diamond99]

hello everyone so I love my family but they are all rude and talk mean about everyone and it’s too much for me to handle I can hardly be around them sometimes my anxiety goes up everytime what I wonder is why does family act this way why can’t everyone get along so here’s a example my little sister who drives and I don’t have a license or car because I have alot of anxiety so anyways she refused to help me to get to work she said I am looking for work and don’t have time but she is not working and it really hurts my feelings because she takes things out on me everytime and I don’t understand what I did to deserve it I help her with babysitting and money all of the time so for her to just kick me when I am down hurts my feelings and my other family members just argue and judge everyone all of the time its a lot if anyone has some advice or would like to just talk i could use some friends.

[Call_me_anything]

Family can be mean at sometimes but they're the ones who truly love you. They're the only ones who will be always by your side. ( Or if you are super lucky, then maybe you have some friends who will be there for you always)

[Call_me_anything in reply to Call_me_anything]

We are here for you

[Lve2dance in reply to Call_me_anything]

Facts, 😀.. I love my family because they are my family.. My friends are like family I choose.

[Call_me_anything in reply to Lve2dance]

🙌🕺💃

[Lve2dance in reply to Call_me_anything]

😁

[Blueruth]

☝️ period? I’m out of breath!

If your sister isn’t working shouldn’t she be looking for a job? My cousin acts that way. It is annoying. I decided to accept it instead of losing her. You might have to make that choice.

[Diamond99]

Ya the thing is that I babysit for her all of the time and let her borrow money but when I need help to get to work she will only help here and there but I at the time have asked everyone to help and I don’t like asking for help as it is I love her but I just don’t understand why she couldn’t help me for a bit until I could find a ride it’s super frustrating because she usually helps me

[Hidden]

I think I'd try to find a way to get to work where I wouldn't have to depend on her. Can you take a bus, bike, get a ride from a co-worker? Can you not lend her money and use your money to pay for a ride-share? She doesn't sound reliable and you don't want to lose your job.

[Diamond99]

I actually was able to find another ride from a nice woman who is my Co worker she usually is not unreliable but she just kept making a excuse like sorry I have been busy with the kiddos which I understand but one is in school and one is starting back today and she’s not working so it just hurt my feelings that she could help a lot more before and now it’s like No i can’t it seems like it’s only about her and what she wants but I don’t know I am just hurt and I could be wrong

[designguy]

Sounds like your life would be a lot simpler and calmer if you learned how to deal with your anxiety and started driving. You might check out the DARE Anxiety book and youtube videos, there are specific ones and info about overcoming driving anxiety.