I simply don't want to be alone anymore

[Bill181]

don't want to be alone anymore I basically live alone always alone and when I hear people having plans for the weekend it actually hurts wish I had someone with me right now

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Aww bless u and I am sorry for u hurting this way

[Shelly7151]

know how you feel

[Dot_]

Hi Bill181,

I'm sorry you feel that way. It's so hard, especially when you can hear and see how great of a time others are having. I get it. I live in my hometown and I feel as though I have no one but my family and boyfriend. They're great, but they can only go so far and hang out with only so many times. I miss having the friends that would hang out with me after suggesting it over a text, or willing to run a random errand to walmart. It's hard to make those kinda connections again as an adult. It's so lonely.

If you ever want to talk, I'm here!

[Bill181 in reply to Dot_]

Thank u

[Arymretep]

I think it’s worse in the summer when everyone is out and about doing things, are you working , maybe you could make friends with someone who’d like to do something at the weekend, or maybe join a club , there are so many things going on where you could meet others who are lonely too, , sometimes we have to push ourselves , good luck 👍 we’re all here for you

[Bill181 in reply to Arymretep]

Yea I agree thank u

[Celtic274]

Hi Bill sorry to see your feeling lonely have you tried to join any groups locally for people to you try not to feel desperate as there's someone out there for everyone I never thought I would meet some one and I've been married for 34 years you will meet the right person when you least expect it ! Good luck all the best !!

[Bill181 in reply to Celtic274]

I'm not desperate just feeling lonely!

[Midori]

I agree with Celtic, get yourself out there and show yourself. People won't beat a path to your door unless they know you are there and want to talk, make friends, etc.

It's very easy in a busy life to forget about friends who don't keep in contact, and often don't realise they are drawing away because they don't want to be a nuisance. Hence, you get forgotten.

Please, get out of the house and go where folk are, say hello to a few, Join a club or several reflecting your interests. That's how I did it.

Cheers,Midori