I use to love all the advice and opinions I’d get on here. It made me feel like I wasn’t alone. The last couple of posts I’ve made, I haven’t had a single comment. And it just makes me sad and feel like I’m truly all alone. Feels like I’ve done something wrong 😞
Take care everyone.
Hi it’s Shnookie. You haven’t done anything wrong. I’m here for you. Have a better day tomorrow.
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I am here for you too. I am in Australia so there might be a time difference Issue. Also when I am not feeling the best, I occasionally take a digital detox. 💜🐨
I messaged you before u posted this
No I didn't. I suggested you sounded like one which was not a criticism but an observation. I also said if this is discussed in another post I would try and help. And I told you it wasn't fair to hijack someone else's post so I was going to delete my replies once you had read them. Please don't make things up or try and made an issue out of nothing.
Hi BrownEyesBl ,I understand how you feel, to be lonely. Being on here I find I get a lot out of reading ours posts. I find it encouraging and I know there a lot of people in a similar situation as I find myself in.(Depression, anxiety, loneliness). I think people just get busy especially if they live north where there isn't much time to enjoy the warm weather.
I personally find a lot of insight and similarities in others posts. There is so much to read I get lost in it. I know everyone is different but I hope this helps. You definitely have done nothing wrong, I am here if you want to talk. What time zone are you in? I'm EST.
I'm a people pleaser. I took care of people and enjoyed it. I'm not sure what was said here but people pleasing becomes an issue when we don't take care of ourselves also. I learned this the hard way.
I just wanted to explain " people pleasing" meant from a therapists view.
Again, I didn't see the comments. Just sharing what I've learned.
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BrownEyesI'm sorry you feel this way. Please don't take it personally. It is so hard to get to all the posts. Depending on when we come in to read on HU import things may already have reached the bottom of the posts.
Sadly many get missed.
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Think it's my signal I don't see new posts unless I refresh the page I'm sorry
I don't know what was said, but I will say that this is not the way to handle a dispute with another member. To call out another member by name, twice, isn't Kosher here. If you have a dispute, there are better ways to handle it. We all make mistakes, but the best way to deal with them is to either work it out in a PM, or report a post you think is harmful. We can all agree to disagree, and have a diplomatic discussion without naming a person repeatedly. I find that very harmful....after all... we are all here for the same reasons, ... mental health and mental injury.
Sometimes I think when the site goes through a quieting down cycle, there are fewer posts and comments. We never know what other people are going through or dealings with. I have posted many times and had few comments, and then another post I could have a lot of feedback. I wouldn't take it personally at all.
You need to step back a bit and rethink your words... this is not your typical social media forum to flame and attack members. If you want to sincerely make friends and learn how to deal with your own stuff, you will find a lot of people more than willing to help you out. You're attacking people who have been here for a long time, and we all make mistakes, that's okay as long as we learn from them. If you want to argue and be caustic, there are plenty of other sites to do that on, not here. Finding peace in a crazy world is why many are here, this kind of confrontational approach just alienates people and scares others. You obviously need help, your in the right place for it if that's why your here.
You should stop now... you have polluted this person's post with arguments and judgmental comments about other members...live and let live or find another forum you can do that on...
I apologize to the poster for this invasion on their post, and I won't respond to this person anymore...the best way to deal with this stuff is to ignore it and report it.
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