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It's really hard to continue reaching out for help when you feel harassed and ganged up on by people who don't want you to succeed in bettering yourself or life, those whos intentions are to prey upon people struggling or a more vulnerable group of individuals. Its really p***ing me the f**k off actually!! Struggling with this a bit today. Alot today actually! Something needs to be done! I'm sick of it!!! STILL NOT GIVING UP!!! 👋 Anger can also be a great motivator!! Any feedback would be so much appreciated 🙏

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Survivor, I wholeheartedly believe as well that "anger" can be a great motivator.I got sick and tired of people not understanding and putting me down. I tried oh I

tried so hard to explain what I was feeling and going through, but no one understood.

It was like I was speaking a different language.

How many times can you bang your head against the wall trying to feel some support

and caring? It was "anger" within me that turned my plan of action around.

"nobody cares to help me, then I will help myself and show them"....

Those words were the start of my going forward. Believing in one's self is a powerful

tool. I now had a positive path with no negative bs coming from those around me.

What a difference it made. All that time that I spent trying to explain my symptoms

was a waste of time and energy. Now I was working just for me.

Maybe it's what we all need in reality. The more people who might bully us or baby us

doesn't make us stronger but can make us dependent on something that is not stable.

Within ourselves, we have the control as well as the choice of decisions that only we

can make.

Survivor, I think today was your "aha" moment. Time to take care of YOU. No one else

matters right now. Surround yourself with positivity, push aside the negatives in your life.

March forward and no longer stay stuck. You've got this my friend. You always did. :) xx

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Survivor1687 in reply to Agora1

Thank you :')

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CoderMom

Hear the struggle is real in your post and that you are a fighter. I struggle with circumstances outside of my control and am constantly, as I call it, thrown under the nearest bus by people who don't want me to succeed or be right or move forward with my life and now that includes my fighting for my life as my health is a big part of the issue. Hear you loudly. For me, I sing praise and worship songs and let go of what other people do as there is nothing I can do anyway.

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Survivor1687 in reply to CoderMom

((hugs))

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