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So my kids father is in prison and he gave one of his friends my number. So I've been talking to him for a while (3-4 months) and he is really nice and fun for me to talk to he makes me feel happy when we call even though we don't talk much but everyone I talk to about him says he is bad news and I should cut off all contact with him before things get serious (for him) I also didn't tell my bf about him and I'm scared to tell him what should I do

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Agora1

Hi Lookingforhope, Be careful... where is this all going?Maybe this is one time to listen to others who may know

more about the friend you are talking with.

Stay Safe... I care :) xx

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Lookingforhope20100 in reply to Agora1

No one knows him he is in Utah so my friends and family know nothing about him part of me wants to back away from him but I'm also scared to do so

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Opportunity in reply to Lookingforhope20100

Hello! You helped me so much I thought I’d try to return the favor. 😀Scared of him? Or scared of losing a nice chat buddy? Or something else entirely?

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Lookingforhope20100 in reply to Opportunity

Im scared to loose a good friend but also scared of him finding me if I back away

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Agora1 in reply to Lookingforhope20100

Of course only you can make the decision at the end.For me, it seems too stressful a venture to take. Wish you well :) xx

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Roxylox

Doesn't sound safe to me

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Zekette

As much as I hate it, my loved ones advice is what I should have done.

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Sabbath1

From sounds of it you should pick a guy and stick with it, whether it be baby daddy's friend( why would dude in prison be trying to set up his friend with his baby mama?) or your boyfriend. Or whoever else ya got goin. Pick one and be happy. Or who knows in today's upsidedown world you can have them all . Just make sure the kids are safe .

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Lookingforhope20100 in reply to Sabbath1

Thanks for your words of advice here's the thing I don't want either guy that's in prison well I'm suck with one for obvious reasons and the other one is just a really lonely guy looking for a friend so I became his friend but I don't know if I should call it off before he falls in love with me or whatever

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Emz84saiger

I think you need to be honest to your boyfriend and your self hun I say go with your gut feeling s

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