Is it really that bad to ditch my family for some peace of mind on my and my twin sisters birthday.
The original plan was to come home from my birthday camping trip to dinner as home. But my parents got too tired to come a whole bunch of food so they wanted to eat out. I understand that and I would much rather stay home and order something home. I was just coming back from a trip and im tired and I get really anxious on trip so I need that time. But then I find out one of my sisters booked a table of a restaurant I dont like ( super crowded and the food its my favorite.) I told mu twin I dont want go to this but she was like " my parents want to spend time with us its our birthday, and I told her that I don't feel up for it. It's a long day I'm tired. And that restaurant is really crowded. I have anxiety and all that is trigger especially cuz I'm tired. . Welll they kept telling me to go and I do really appreciate the whole gesture, I dont want to go..
Anyway. Im ended up going cuz Idont want disappointed my family. But its my birthday too and I was ok with staying home. I'm tired and cranky and in an out of anxiety. Im just .... up to here.