people lying about me

[brokenankle75]

im at a loss. almost everyone in my apt complex is talking shit about me. almost all of them are lies. i mean complete off the wall lies. even my new neighbor was on this one about the manager who is police chief and something about the master key of apts. idk i dont remember. it blew my mind. then a woman who i thought was my friend was telling someone everything i was telling her cuz i was getting harassed by manager and owner trying to enforce rules that were not in my lease. plus a bunch of other stuff. she is my ride to get groceries and yday when i found out i wanted nothing to do with her. hes like if i let everything everyone said about me...i dont remember the rest of the part. but hopefully u get the gifts of it. so today when i woke up and i have changed my mind im going to take those rides from her and i want nothing else to do with her. totally upsets me cuz im totally alone. 1 friend who lives an hour away and j1 in a nursing home thats it. no family either. i feel like a person stuck in middle of ocean without any food or water.

[Ladybug9]

It sounds like these people in your building need to get a life and stop worrying about yours! I just don't understand why people need to gossip and cause drama. Ignore them. You are more important than their pettiness!! Sending you hugs

[brokenankle75 in reply to Ladybug9]

Thank you I need them

[Hidden]

Just remember that you know the truth about you. My therapist once told me that everyone has their own "truths" -- "truths" about their world and the different people in it. Everyone is entitled to their own "truths", even if it means they are not correct. You yourself hold the real "truth" regarding yourself. It requires lots of strength to not let other people impose their "truth" about you onto you and and have it affect you.

Are you religious? If so, God knows whats in your heart. He knows the truth about you.

I hope this helps somewhat🙂

[brokenankle75 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you yes and I do believe in god

[Ilovepugs123]

I am sorry you are going through that, Sadly there isn't anything you can do about people talking behind your back other then ignore them, they talk behind your back to make you mad and when you get mad and they see that it makes them happy. All you can do is meet new people and hope they believe you and don't even tell people about the appartment complex because whats the point let the person break the appartment complex rules and let them get in trouble. All you can do is pay your rent and stay there thats the only thing you can do, about that person who takes you to the store, don't bother talking to her or ask her for a ride because if you ask her for a ride she might start stuff with you and you don't need that at all, try finding someone else who can take you or try finding away to the store because one day the lady might just say no to talking you to the store everytime because of the drama and stuff. If you ever need anyone to talk, please feel free to message me.

[brokenankle75 in reply to Ilovepugs123]

I am completely alone

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to brokenankle75]

I'm sorry to hear that i really do hope you meet new people and hopefully good things happen and not bad things. if you ever need anyone to talk to please feel free to message me. stay strong.

[brokenankle75 in reply to Ilovepugs123]

Thank you. I’m not quit sure how this site totally works but I will have to spend more time on it

[Ilovepugs123 in reply to brokenankle75]

Your welcome

[VDC1]

You’ve got to understand that literally everyone gossips about everyone. It’s a fucked up fact of life. ( you’re gossiping to us about them).

It can be like “broken telephone “ where stories get repeated incorrectly and passed on.

Two weeks ago my friends were smoking and I stepped inside. The windows were open and they didn’t know I could hear and like 5 of my friends immediately started gossiping about me. It’s one of the shittiest feelings you can have. You can say they’re shitty friends but I guarantee you your best friends have gossiped about you too.

You have to choose whether it’s best to let it slide. or in some cases, it’s necessary to confront head on.

[brokenankle75 in reply to VDC1]

I’m sorry you went through that. I believe in being straightforward with people. As far as wise as your friends they should’ve talked to you personally.

I’m not trying to sound like what I’m doing about talking about it on here is different but the police chief told me to let me know what people were saying cuz they put things in rent box and I can get kicked out. He told the owner he knows me from casino cuz we both worked there and stuck up for me. I am the type of person who normally confunts people cuz that’s how I want to be treated. And it’s driving me crazy not saying anything. My neighbor does things that can get her into trouble but in not a snitch and as long as it doesn’t affect me I stay out of it and I expect the same in return.