Why is nothing seem to working or finding a new boyfriend yet

I been having some issue with finding a new boyfriend and one of issue that only thing that make happy is by having a boyfriend but i do not had one and still single . nothing else seem to happen . when to Youth club in Northwich and they were very friendly . saw my ex boyfriend there that didn't help at all since he was very immature still .taking a long time this time and very frustrated

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do understand that boys dont mature til 18 /20 /45/95- worked with women and girls my whole life....by 8 ...most women already have their marrieid planned.......thats why in the old days guys went to the service ....at age 18 ish (or 15) and start to grow up.....come back a different person........women mature early .....and we annoy the heck out of them our whole lives...

i dont have any good ideas except the old day dances and socials.....the women and tohers are more current.......watch the internet........im not one but there are tons of predictors out there...i get emails all the time......

hi im jolleeen i want to be your friend im 18....

ok....i get it ....reaching out

as an old protective man and former older brother

she has zero.....idea who she is talking to.........i freak!!!!!!!

BEEEEEE CAREFULLLLLL

[bethelbee in reply to Hidden]

Don't force it. You need to be happy/satisfied with yourself before having a successful relationship. Yes, and be careful, many predators and scammers out there online. Someone I know has been involved in a few online romance scams; many are not who they say they are. They steal pictures from others online and use them but in actuality are scammers from other countries.

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I do not understand about being happy or satisfied with myself . what about in real life

[bethelbee in reply to Hidden]

I can understand you want someone in your life, but it seems that's all you're focused on. Do things that make YOU happy, be good to yourself and eventually you will find someone. You are still very young. Do you have a therapist or counselor you can talk to?? It might help.

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I already tried being making myself happy hasn't even work at all

[walkmoore in reply to Hidden]

It just means love on yourself take this time to do some soul searching. Try to do things that interest you only. You will be so busy doing and being when you look up and least expect it that special person may be right in front of you. So yes try not to force it. I've learned the forced stuff that I have done usually doesn't work out for me, hang in their remember you are the prize.

[Hidden in reply to walkmoore]

why are telling this already love myself so

[walkmoore in reply to Hidden]

I just said love on yourself that is very different from if you love yourself. Ok but good luck with everything.

[Hidden in reply to walkmoore]

i just hate being single so much that just makes super upset

[bethelbee in reply to Hidden]

What is so bad about being single??? Find things to do that you enjoy. I was married for a while and frankly it's not all you might think it is. Not putting it down; many are happily married, but it's not easy. Good luck!

[bethelbee in reply to walkmoore]

Great reply!!

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i just said it make very sad and don't feel like doing anything since town is for couples and must of deal meat from café are also from couple and also do not like see couples do PDA