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Why nothing seem to be going right with my love life?

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I know that I have been having issues with finding with the right guy for me, but I don't know why some of the guys that I did have relationship did cheated. The last guy that I did date want crazy. Blame it all on my trust each time that we argue. by the way, they all ex boyfriends. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I have a great personality, will be honest, no matter how hashes it. I will not have sex

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Sorry you're feeling badly...some guys cheat and love chatting it up with other women while dating someone. However, there are guys that would put you up on a pedestal and treat you like you should be treated and admire you that you waited for the right guy to have sex. I admire your no sex rule.

If that's the reason these guys cheated or broke up with you..be glad they're gone...if that's all they want let then go find it elsewhere.

Be thankful they're gone. You'll meet the right guy. Be patient.

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I can't even find any good one . it all seem to bad guy or immature

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Sunnidayz1

Hi. I commend you on noticing a certain pattern when it comes to your relationships in the past-it shows that you have great insight and awareness. I will give you advice based on my own experiences. When I was younger I became aware of the fact that I couldnt hold on to friendships. I then realized it was a pattern-that it was me. Something inside of me, something I was telling myself that prevented me from having solid connections. Theres nothing wrong or missing in you. But theres something that you are telling yourself perhaps subconsciously that holds you back from finding the right person or someone who doesnt cheat. Research "self limiting beliefs". It'll make sense. If you dont look into this you might continue the same pattern and the right person will come by and you'll miss the opportunity bc what holds us back in life prevents us from making the right decisions.

PM me anytime

Sunni💛

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I been seen same time of guy .they seem to go insane or were cheater . I had 11 ex bfs I think

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Lixus

I don't think you are doing anything wrong, I think it's because there are some people who don't understand the importance of a communication in a relationship whatever is a friendly relationship or a romantic one.

Of course there has to be trust between each other but I don't think that means you can't ask and talk if you have anything to discuss with your partner and I think that is the problem, some people don't understand that...

Also, if someone cheated on you (I'm sry to hear that) let me tell you that is not your problem, is their's, you don't deserve them if they lie and cheated on you and it's the right thing to let them go, don't blame yourself about it

Good luck with all ✨

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We have broken up. Over hygiene. It all starts to convid19 then we argue. He did blame my trust issues None of my past ex boyfriend was very much immature.

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I can't anymore good once . I am don't know what I am doing wrong to attracted immature guys

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Elliott_Woods

Seems like you might be going for the wrong kind of guys? Maybe. Lay it out on the table when you meet another guy, u know? Tell it like it is. That you've been hurt and don't want any drama. Or take time for yourself 💚 self love is important, so that could be something you can work on. If you do that, then you might find someone who is worthy of your time and your love.

I really hope good things come your way. I think you deserve it after all the jerks who have made their way in your life.

Keep your head up and know that in time you will find a perfect match. Just wait.

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