Why I don't feel very uncomfortable with finding a guy with a depression but fine with ADHD?

I am OK with part of ADHD, but I don't want to deal with another guy with depression and think because my ex boyfriend that did have PDA did also have a mental health issue, and he did cause the most issue with our relationship did have and did get so fed up after that he was accusing me cheating and give him a second chance , but it got even worst and end blaming my trust issue each time we did argue, but he was the only one that start it first place. he was one that made me break up since I was so tired and so much broken. I don't want to deal with it again.

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do you not think that I don't want to be in a relationship with another person with a mental heath issue .

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I don't even do this thing and yet find but nothing and do not chase . yet i all keep getting is idiot and mental heath issue men that seem to like me, but I do not want anyone.

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I have been trying to find a new guy, but I can't even find any guy I want . just seem to get guys with mental heath issue . I would prefer a guy with austism witout having mental heath . my other past relationship I did been cheated on and yep they did blame on their learning disabilities .

[Dragon3695 in reply to Hidden]

Just keep in mind it was the guy using his depression/mental health issues to blame him hurting you instead of being honest with himself because the depression didn't hurt you the guy did.

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yet I don't even want to date another person with mental heath isuse . I already said this for reason . i too scared to do again and seem to be going to be same again .

[Dragon3695 in reply to Hidden]

I get it and understand what you are saying. I'm just saying to remember some people never talk about it or even let people they are talking to, dating, or even just hanging out with know. In those cases, someone who has it well maintained is next to impossible to tell there is anything mentally wrong with them

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I can't find guys in my requirement and still have very bad luck with relationship with other past relationship . guys in college did cheat, and they were the one that blame on their learning disabilities and I also have some girls just gain my trust just get closed my college ex boyfriend .

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Even if someone has issues with depression, everyone has different personalities. I happen to have bipolar disorder and I was with someone else who has that too. He is one of the sweetest, kindest people you will ever find. And he has a college degree and is educated. What is heartbreaking is that he just can't hold on to a job and he's not good with money. I still like him as a friend but I want someone who can offer me more than that. And I need to work on myself. I need to get a job and be able to keep it without wanting to quit after 6 months or a year. There's no perfect guy out there, everyone has the their good sides and dark sides. Even someone who doesn't have issues with depression, you might find yourself dealing with a total narcissist. So be careful out there. It's good to have standards, but guys with depression are not necessarily going to act the same way your ex did. I wish you the best.💖

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I never had good luck with any past relationship . other guys that I did have a relationship did cheat, and he was the one that blame on his leaning disabilities . I also rember that one girl did have crush on my other ex boyfriend at time, and she did cause a lot of drama just with while me or my ex college boyfriend . he also ends cheating . yep girls has used my trust just closed to ex boyfriend while I was in college .

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I have only been in learning disabilities school and college . it because I have a learning disability . I am right into middle in intelligent . I am too intelligent with user with learning disabilities but not intelligent enough with mainstream users .