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It hurts when you know you can't tell anyone (even your close people) how you really feel and know that if you do they'll use it against you in the future...

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Letsgethappy

Hey! Im so sorry to hear you are struggling. Please don't feel you are alone because you are not. Hope you are feeling better soon! Virtual hug ❤

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Randomlonely in reply to Letsgethappy

Thank you! ❤

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Letsgethappy in reply to Randomlonely

You are welcome. Hope you are better soon x

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kv3011

I’m sorry you’re feeling this way. It really does suck! Like if you told someone you had a cold they would do anything to help you feel better but if you tell them you’re depressed they freeze up and don’t know what to do or they look at you differently. Just know you’re not alone. You have this community! You can talk about whatever you want here.

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Randomlonely in reply to kv3011

Exactly! Thanks for the reply!

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Because they don't know how to fix it either

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Grateful71

I'm really sorry to hear that you feel that way. What do you mean by use it against you? If you feel you have been betrayed in the past it can be hard put yourself out there again

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Randomlonely in reply to Grateful71

They bring it up when we're arguing about something completely different just to hurt me!

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Hb2003 in reply to Randomlonely

I am sorry about that I am sending much kindness and love to you

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Randomlonely in reply to Hb2003

Thanks a lot! I wish the same to you too.

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Hb2003 in reply to Randomlonely

Your amazing and kind you don’t deserve this

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Hb2003 in reply to Hb2003

You deserve kindness and love and warmth

No kidding Randomly, got to be Careful what you say -

Definitely

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Secret4706

I can totally relate. I can talk to mine but just get told its all in my head. It's so hard. Then bottling it up makes it worse. So many on here will relate and support you. So tell us and we won't ever throw it back in your face. Promise.

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Randomlonely in reply to Secret4706

Thank you! I appreciate your support!

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Secret4706 in reply to Randomlonely

Anytime😀

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Starrlight

❤️

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ciley

i have that too~fact is people do let you down ! maybe we shoud look at it differently?

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Noquarter

If it will be used against you then maybe they don’t deserve you.

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Whiskers16

Completely understand what you are saying, I can’t even tell my partner exactly how bad I feel.Take care

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ciley

i'm not allowed to speak now~and friends~what are they?

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