Why

[AnonymousASB]

Why do i give my best but still lose. Why do i have so much love to give but still no one to appreciate it. How do i accept this is most likely the life for me💔

[Hidden]

Consider getting a pet, my cat helped me a lot.

[Reading_Rando]

For whatever it may be worth to share this I'm pretty much where you are too. I'm came to the conclusion (rightly or wrongly) that their are people in the world who no matter what you do will never really appreaciate you or what you do and some of them possibly don't truely appreaciate anyone.

On the flipside to this though there are people out there who can appreciate you, the world is too big and has too many people in it for that not to be the case. Maybe like me you just dont have enough of those people around you right now.

[Survivor4Ever]

I think because it starts with #1 loving yourself first #2 accepting yourself perfectly as you are #3 knowing you don not need anyone’s approval #4 no people pleasing # 5 Getting to know who you are ...... I think maybe than you’ll see how things look different and your perspective will change. Sometimes it’s just not time yet, but it will come, we must be patient. My thoughts anyway .

[Agora1 in reply to Survivor4Ever]

Right on my friend xx

[Reading_Rando in reply to Survivor4Ever]

Amen! 👍

[Hidden]

When you realize they don't care about you, it won't hurt you anymore

when they don't...

Cat

🤭

[FearIsALiar]

I understand

[JRS2007]

I get it too. Dealing with a lot of that myself right now. Can message and talk to me about it if you want and this group is very supportive as well

[Hidden]

I too have asked those questions. I mean I’m lost and all out of love for the very reasons your searching for love. I gave so much of myself away. I do believe that love is a choice. If you are not being treated kindly and loved then firstly love yourself. My hearts so damaged from loving the wrong people. Try not to cast your jewels to the swine. I’ve done that almost too many times. If I don’t find the right one soon, I fear it’ll be too late for me. As it is, I just love those that are near me, if they treat me bad, i back off.

I write lyrics. Sometimes I imagine when I write a sad one like I’ll share below-someone singing it back to me, but changing the words a little so it reflects just what I need to hear, so that I know that maybe someone out there does love me. Crazy eh?

Healing my heart

Want to throw on the covers

Shield myself from the pain

She’s wanting me as her lover

But marriage has drivin me insane

I want your good lovin

I need you as my best friend

Been hurt in so many places

To her it doesn’t matter anymore

Your head game’s are outrageous

My heart lays shattered on the floor

You thought you were healing my heart

You lusted for my body

And my soul is crumbling loudly

And I’m falling all apart...

... you thought you were healing my heart.

I tried to ease the ache

But it’s buried so many layers deep

Your love for me you faked

And everybody treats me like a freak

You thought you were healing my heart

You lusted for my body

And my soul is crumbling loudly

And I’m falling all apart...

... you thought you were healing my heart.

I gave all my love from a soul so golden

You said you loved me deeply

While you cheated’n trapped me like a rodent

Dangled a carrot for my lovin You keep me

....thought you were healing my heart

lusted for my body

my soul is crumbling loudly

I’m falling all apart...

...thought you were healing my heart.

I have a dog that loves me unconditionally but I’d give up my dog for someone that truly loved me. I’d give up my dog if I could only find a life after all the sweetness and kindness that I gave away in love would be reciprocated. It’s just so hard to trust.

[Reading_Rando in reply to Hidden]

You should be able to have both! 😀

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

I should and thought I had, but people can b cruel. My hearts to shattered. I feel I’m too depressed to be loved, and I wouldn’t want anyone I love to feel this way. But people I love hate me because of my mental health being the way it is. I think my dog is sad because he can feel me - that gets me feeling sorry for him. Depression is a horrible thing. Makes everybody hate, and misunderstand me.

[Iammesues]

Well said. Acceptance is supposed to bring us peace right? But it’s hard to do

[utep99]

What you actually have is a gift although it does not seem so now. You have the ability to love above and beyond. Spread this love wherever you go. I think later on you will find somebody who appreciates that love and happiness is sure to follow.😍😍

[dutchgirl71]

Oh how I understand....