Upset

[brokenankle75]

Idk pretty much everyone in my apartment complex talks shit about me behind my back and sweet as pie to my face. And I found that out by a manager. This woman who is my neighbor that has lived here for like two weeks was talking lies about me with two other people. So off the wall my jaw dropped when the manager told me. I had planned on filing harassment charges at managers and owners because they are Enforcing rules that are not in my lease. Have had two lawyers tell me I have a case. Plus a lot more things.I was also told to write down everything I was being harassed about and record everything. I only told that to two people here and the manager was telling me detailed information about it and told me who I think is my friend isn’t. I was beginning to say Deb because she didn’t even contact me when someone important to me went to prison that day. She made up stupid lies and even the manager said she was saying stuff. I was crying to the manager who is the police chief that I am like on a raft out at sea with no water or food because I have one friend who is an hour away and the other is in a nursing home. Plus I can’t drive. I feel so alone I’ve even written posts on here and didn’t even get a response. My parents are gone but my mom has usually treated me like shit mostly but she did show love sometimes especially if my brother’s weren’t around.. my brothers don’t have anything to do with me except 1 who’s in prison. No extended family. I’m so scared n alone

[Hidden]

I know how in having an apartment you have to be careful how you get along with the landlord. They have the power to evict you when all is said and done. It might just be the wisest thing to move somewhere else instead of trying to prove a court case. That's the best thing I could say to you.

[brokenankle75 in reply to Hidden]

I am. Actually the landlord said he’d get me a job at dollar general here but I told him I want to live somewhere where there’s more to do when I get my license back cuz I can only drive to and from work and DR appointments and I don’t make friends. I’m so lonely. He also told me of an up and coming place being built and finished in couple months in town I want to live. Has pool, hot tube, and I don’t remember what else. It’s more then I can afford but everything is included even cable. I’m on disability but I can also work and eventually ease into full time. I’m tired b n poor. I’m also accepted for a program in northeastern Iowa. It’s an organization like his but they don’t have to be subsidized housing

[Hidden in reply to brokenankle75]

I'm on disability myself, it sucks. I applaud the efforts you are making. Sometimes we all find things out the hard way. I've got the wheels turning in my mind and I'm trying to figure out how I can support myself and forget depending on the lousy government. Good luck to you.

[brokenankle75 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you you 2

[blackcat64013]

Hi from Australia. No-one is ever alone in our forum. Sometimes we are busy or don't know how to provide advice so there won't be a reply .

I can relate to group living as a single. Despite ups and downs, the place inside the 4 walls is your home. The manager being aware of the gossip, is your friend at this time.

Covid-19 is also affecting how people think and act but it doesn't excuse the behavior at all. If you can take the focus back to you and doing things to feel better like meditation, exercise, taking up a hobby etc, your state of mind is bound to improve.

Hoping to hear more from you and things are looking brighter 💜🐨

[brokenankle75 in reply to blackcat64013]

Thank you so sweet 🥰