Bad outweigh good

[Pieces99]

Hi guys!! So I met this guy online, we were jelling up pretty good for so many days. Once I was having these vulnerable moments with my best friend and I don't remember well but something came up and he questioned. Would I forget him? I answered that because of many people have used and hurt me emotionally in the past, I don't get attached to any person quickly and tend to forget a person if I want to completely. I can do that but not without getting hurt first. Offcourse the pain of forgetting someone hurts pretty bad in the beginning but eventually I would get used to it and the pain would naturally stop. Now this is the psychology of any person. He might have misunderstood me or something and claimed that I should erase him from my life because eventually I'm good at it. He appeared to be hurt by my saying. But this is the truth. This is who I am. I think this is natural to all of us. But the mechanism is different. He got so offended by it. I thought " Wow, I have so many good qualities that I have shown him, shared with him and he just snap his fingers and forgets it and begin to outweigh my goodness with this one bad thing of mine". I felt really really hurt. I know there are both good and bad in a person but I don't think it's fair for others to make an assumption about a person on the basis of bad things. Well it did gave me a sense of relief now that I have shared all this. It's really astonishing that friendship ends so quickly just like that within minutes. I guess the world is going fast.