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I'm 21years old ..

It really damn sucks being alone, I gat family but I feel alone.. From my last post I stated I went through a horrible break up I have since been trying to patch up but quarantine isn't really making things any better.... I have gotten to make 2 different male friends online recently but they both have left my life one way or the other....i just keep going in circles , I pretty much hate needing people but I can't help it believe me I try ....i just need someone to talk to everytime.

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brokenlight

It takes bravery to reach out for support.

I’m glad you’re here ✨

in reply to brokenlight

Thank you

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Freedom57

Being alone is hard but I wish I had given myself time to heal & become whole when I was 20 years old like you. It's very difficult to sustain a relationship until you learn to provide for your own needs. I'm going through the same thing you are now, & I'm 57. If we are broken we attract what we are. Invest in yourself, you are so worth it!

in reply to Freedom57

True... Thanks ..i guess I just have to keep working on my self then

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Kainan

Hi. Sorry you are going through these emotions. You’re not alone. Know how hard it can be. If you need a friend..(hug)

in reply to Kainan

Thanks a lot

It is very difficult as an adult going through a emotional and mental issues to make friends. Someone gave me advise to rekindle old relationships and stoke the fires of friendship you DO have. I say i have none, but i have a few "cinders" burning somewhere. Covid is making it so tricky as well. Try staying active outdoors to meet people doing the same AND boost that dopamine at the same time- double wammy!

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Thanks, I would give that a try then

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Do you work out now?

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Do you mean exercise.... If so no, I don't at all..... I'm really insecure about my weight and I have been trying to put on weight.... Also I was sick about a week ago so I look so damn skinny again 😢

You could maybe walk at low intensity and wave hello to people. It's a nice way to connect a bit.

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Alright, I would consider that... Thanks

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