kicked out...

[Madysen019]

I got kicked out of my house by my dad 3 days ago and have been crashing on the couch of a family friends. However I feel really guilty for doing it considering her financial situation and she has a son to care for. I tried to negotiate on going back but my mom just said I was challenging her and that I “don’t want to fuck with” her.

I just started working again and won’t get pains for 2 weeks. I have maybe 110 in my bank account and can only stay where I am till Saturday. I have no where to go after that except my car. I took my clothes shoes make up and essentials with me when I left.

I’m really scared.

My boyfriend lives out of state with the army so I can’t stay with him.

The closest family is 8 hours away.

I don’t have any other friends to stay with.

I’m terrified once Saturday comes I’ll be out on the streets...... I don’t know what to do.

It’s taking such a toll on me and I don’t know how to find the will to keep trying.

I’m in tears as I write this...

I just wanted to be loved by my family... but have always been treated like a burden.

I have no money saved to get an apartment.

I feel completely hopeless and lost

what do I do

[shewolf_]

Wow I once was kicked out too of my moms house I had no where to go but my boyfriends house . I know how that feels i’m so sorry to hear this . I had to sleep in my car before and it is very lonely . I would say that if you need to travel 8 hours ... do so .

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They should have shelters that you can live and they have resources that's available that will help you get back on your feet.

[Hidden]

I was kicked out when I was 16. No car no money. Friends and family till you get on your feet is a good place to start. If you have to shelters are alright, I still picked “camping” with a gym membership. I never went home so no advise there and that was 17 years ago.

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I understand the difficulty of your situation.

I lived in my vehicle for 6 months. As horrible as that sounds, it was better for me mentally than living with my mentally & emotionally abusive parents or my alcoholic ex-husband.

My boyfriend lived 3 hours away, so I couldn’t stay with him and keep my job.

It was extremely hard at times. When money permitted, I tent camped, so I could use the bathroom and shower facilities. A couple times, I stayed at different friends for a night or two. A different friend would let me shower at her house occasionally.

But most people don’t know how to help, or how to relate to what you’re going through. I do. ❤️