POST 9: GETTING KICKED OUT OF MY COUSIN'S HOUSE

[TheWhiteRose]

Hello All! I hope you all are doing well during the Coronavirus quarantine and going out when you necessarily need to. As for me, I'm doing the same, staying home under quarantine and going out when I need to. However, I have been hit with some devastating news.

Earlier this evening, my cousin, her husband, her daughter and I were having dinner and listening to some music. All was going well. We were eating, talking and everything was all copasetic until her husband told me that things were not working out and I have up until the end of May to gather my belongings and leave the house.

The reason why he said that was because I rely on my cousin more and that she's caught in the middle between me and him. I have to admit that I have trust issues when it comes to new people being in my life and her husband's new in my life. I don't know him that much and he doesn't know me that much. Plus, me not having a job right now is another reason as to why I have to leave.

I really like my cousin's husband. He's very kind, outgoing, sociable, can stand up and be noticed, genuine and has a very wonderful personality. I really want to have a friendship with him but it's my trust issues that's getting in the way.

Now, I have to worry about where I'm going to live despite the Coronavirus outbreak. I don't have a job right now and I don't have any money. Some people in my family do not like me and I cannot stay with some of them, and I have a boyfriend but he's in the military and I cannot live with him on base unless we get married and that's out of the question right now. I don't know what else to do or where to go. Plus, my cousin agrees with him. She's my best cousin and I am very crushed.

[Poodie]

Hi WhiteRose.

I am sorry. I imagine you would feel crushed. Very bad timing for this to happen. Can you talk to them both and explain that you have no money and may not have a job by May? Ask them for a delay due to current circumstances and Covid19.

Do you think they will reconsider ?

Best. Good luck.

[TheWhiteRose in reply to Poodie]

Hi Poodie, I am VERY crushed! They both know that I do not have any money and no job. The husband says where I go during the outbreak is "not his problem" and my cousin isn't saying much other than "you have to call up other family members and see if they can let you stay with them". And they're supposed to be the kind, docile, gentle, big-hearted Jehovah's Witnesses? Give me a break. I already asked if they can reconcile and they both said no.

[Hidden in reply to TheWhiteRose]

Did they give any reason why? Or do you have an inkling?

[TheWhiteRose in reply to Hidden]

The reasons why they are kicking me out, especially during a pandemic and my state just got the stay home policy yesterday, they kicked me out because they said that I do not have a job yet, the things I do are not good enough for them, and they said that whenever they talk to me, they said that I take what they say and make false narratives, making them look like the bad guys.

[Hidden in reply to TheWhiteRose]

which country are you in?

[TheWhiteRose in reply to Hidden]

United States