Husband jealous brother in law?

[Lemondrp]

Long story short I am very worried about my brother-in-law who has throat cancer and not doing well he has a lot of health problems in the past my husband has expressed jealousy over my brother-in-law and now that my brother-in-law is sick my husband keeps making comments you're not better now what's the matter with your you seems like it's not getting better and your worse what's going! on it's making me very mad because I feel I'm like he's bringing him down instead of being supportive and saying hang in there you'll be alright and not sure how to handle it

[Dolphin14]

I would tell my husband straight out he's being rude if that's what you think he's doing.

Is there a chance he's scared and it's coming out wrong?

I can't imagine someone taunting someone with cancer. If your husband is really doing that he's got some big issues he should take care of.

[Lemondrp in reply to Dolphin14]

Hello thanks for your input I really appreciate it I am going to try to really digest the advice I've been given sometimes things get complicated and it's difficult to sort it out I'm going to try and write in the next few days

[Dolphin14 in reply to Lemondrp]

Yes, I imagine it's all confusing and tough to figure out.

It's always best to digest things and take a second look.

[Lemondrp in reply to Dolphin14]

Yes thanks getting it out of my head make's it real though

[Hidden]

Why is your husband jealous? Are you worse or is brother n law worse?Before you edited, didnt I see he had throat cancer?

Trying to follow, but in any regard, bringing down someone with cancer definitely speaks volumes (if he’s doing that), lack of empathy comes to mind and that’s scary to think that of the man you’re married to.

[Lemondrp in reply to Hidden]

Thanks for your reply my husband is complicated as I also probably . He is a likes to play head games.He has been jealous of my brother law(and my sister)in the past because he says I listen to them and theyre opinion more than him At the same time I believe he has a dark side and he is mean (funny thing his dad said i have a dark side) I don't believe I do so it's hard to sort it out but it helps getting it out thanks for listening.