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Sister in law was at the same restaurant the other day , and just glared at us. Has not spoken to us in over seven years because she felt we made a financial mistake. ( No, it did not affect her.). According to her, she is the BEST, and has never made a mistake despite the fact that her husband is a drunk who is abusive. I cannot stand the bi.

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gogogirl

May I also add that the b did not even care when her own mother died. Her mother was not even good enough for her. She also weighs about three hundred pounds.

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hypercat54 in reply togogogirl

Sounds like she is jealous of you and that's why she glared. She sounds like a very sad person. x

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gogogirl in reply tohypercat54

Yeah, and our taxes pay for her great pension. Why should this idiot who has it made be sad?

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HearYou

Not worth creating any anxiety for you. In many families, there is at least one "sister-in-law", as well as a few "elephants" which no one talks about. Just let it slide. She getting to you serious enough for you to post about her on an anxiety health venue...which is her objective. Not worth any of our time.:)

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gogogirl in reply toHearYou

All three of my husband's siblings are like that. No matter what mistakes they have made, they are never at fault. They have ignored us for over seven years even with hospital visits. Must be because of some mistakes I have made which had nothing to do with them.

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HearYou in reply togogogirl

Sounds like a lovely group of a family by default. :)

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gogogirl

My husband has three of them like that. Maybe it is because of a stupid decision. He's been nice to all three by the way, and has gone out of his way for them. They "never" make mistakes ( his brother cheated on his wife, and his other sister has taken money from her own kids).

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Vonnah in reply togogogirl

Oh i fear those kinds of people😧

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gogogirl

Goood for you! Do you have any other siblings?

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gogogirl

Yeah- screw all of them.

I meant once he got a job, he stopped coming to visit me and when he did, he never asked me if I needed money or food, he just slept over and I had to pay for everything all the time.

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Aren't yu glad you can pick your friends,even if you can't pick family?

in reply toHearYou

Yes! I’ve always had wonderful friends, thank god for that!

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gogogirl in reply toHearYou

Yes.

She has done you a favor!

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Florida1959

Wouldn’t worry, remember she is obviously the one with an issue, who is putting up with a drunk abusive husband, you don’t have to. Walk away, Hess held high, change restaurants, just not worth it, she is probably putting on a massive front, tc x

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Florida1959

Sorry that would be head held high, lol, xxx have great day x

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gogogirl

You too, and thank you.

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Vonnah

Jealousy is the love that people wish that they had. Hope i worded that right. She may be bitter for unknown reasons but she needs help and learn how to love and not hate and be rude. It's sad some people are that way. Just remember, when they go low you go high👍

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