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I have been in a number of relationships but because I have low mood , sadness and depression I fear that what will happen if they find out.

so what I do stop the relationships and I ask them to end it. I fear lot of people to get closer to me . So in this situation I have two dogs which are my friends and my house flower garden which i care a lot to.

I want to get to the real world please help me.

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Trusting people has always been a big issue for me. I would say take your time. Falling in love doesn't happen in one day.

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I am thinking of adoption and forgetting the love issues to those who have it.

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Yeah, and some people are made to be single and adopt. Maybe you are one.

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I am in the same situation as you and I fill that void by loving my dog to pieces. I wish I had the answer and if and when you find it, please let me know!

I worry about that constantly but I never worried about it when I was 12-21. Maybe my thoughts are ruining the day.

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