Idk : What do you do when the person... - Anxiety and Depre...

Anxiety and Depression Support

91,110 members85,048 posts

Idk

hitbyasegway profile image
5 Replies

What do you do when the person you wanted to love more than anyone in this world betrays your trust and breaks your heart in the process. I'm numb. I haven't cried. I'm just laying in bed. Astonished that he isn't going to great lengths to get me back. I know I am worth it. But I think he doesn't realize that. I know there will be many who see my worth. I just wanted it to be him. I really did.

Written by
hitbyasegway profile image
hitbyasegway
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .
5 Replies
TheEmptyNest profile image
TheEmptyNest

You get super sad for a couple of days, and then you start thinking about how amazing you are and that there are so many cool people out there still to meet, that you wouldn’t have had the chance otherwise. This will be ok. I promise. ♥️

NeuronerdDoaty profile image
NeuronerdDoaty

He’s lost the best thing that could ever happen to him. People mess up all the time. You can’t make people believe anything.

In a relationship there is always the lover and the beloved. Relax and find someone who will treat you as the beloved; who will love you with everything that person has.

You’re worthy of this.

hitbyasegway,

I know the pain that you are currently going through. Its rough at the moment and it will get much harder before things get better. Know this, you are a wonderful person and there are so many interesting people in the world that you can meet. Someday along your journey you will find someone who is amazing and will reciprocate the same love and passion that you show them!

SuZQ154 profile image
SuZQ154

You are worthy and enough! You seem to know that in your mind, but has it reached your heart? A wise person once told me I have to be all right being alone, before I can expect to be "all right" with someone else. It was wise and true! You seem to have a good self-image, and you are appropriately showing your sadness. That is wonderful. It takes time to grieve the loss of a relationship you thought would be different! Please know there is hope!

Greenize53 profile image
Greenize53

I understand .. I’m going through a separation of my own .. just know you can message me if you wanna chat

Not what you're looking for?

You may also like...

IDK Anymore!

At times I just want to grab pol and shake them and tell them how hard it is to not know why your...

Idk

Sometimes i feel like it’s not worth it. I try to think that it’ll be worth it in the end but...

Idk why I'm like this 😭

I think I need help. Like I need to talk to someone and figure out what's going on with me. I've...

IDK

I don't see excitement in things anymore, my mom frequently asks me to do something else other than...

Idk

I'll be fine for a couple of day but then I crash. I get depressed more, I don't talk, I get really...