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Getting nervous before seeing Transiberian orchestra with my family

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Welp, that's me tonight. 2.5 hours or 150 minutes of listening to music. I'm going to try to practice being present, part of me thinks I'm jinxing myself by even talking about it in a positive light. But that's what I'm going to do.

Does anyone else get excited for a concert or something similar, than on the day of get cold feet and nervous? What are tips you do in a situation like this?

Hugs to all y'all

Dom

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I can promise you that you will completely immerse yourself in that concert. We went to TSO last year, and omg it was absolutely AMAZING. You will LOVE the show!!

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You were right. I was overwhelmed in line with a ton of other people but I figured on e i sat down i would love the show.

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dom410

Tha is I appreciate it

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dom410 in reply todom410

I mean thanks :)

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NWGal

Absolutely! Seems like more apprehension about going to the venue rather than the concert itself. I wish you could take us all with you! Sounds wonderful and so uplifting! Let us know about it after you go!

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dom410 in reply toNWGal

If I could have all there it would be amazing

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NWGal in reply todom410

I would come!

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Agora1

Breathe dom....perfect chance after the lights lower to find that

quiet place within yourself to breathe and enjoy the music. :) xx

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dom410 in reply toAgora1

Thanks. Indefinitely found myself inline with tons of people and I stayed present and breathed. It was so worth it :)

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Agora1 in reply todom410

I knew you would. Good Job my friend :) xx

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Krn210

I do!! I am so excited prior and then the day of I am just a mess. Some things I do are: dress in layers, I know if I get overheated it won’t end well. Wear comfortable supportive shoes. Hydrate and eat balanced meals prior. I also make sure to grab a water while there. I usually try to bring some sort of granola bar or something with me to either leave in the car or have on hand inside if needed. Lastly I take an essential oil, or beaded bracelet (that I can fidget with if necessary). Lastly, I try to stay present like you said. Oh and I tell myself that I can always leave if I really need to. All will go well. You’re going to have a great time! Enjoy!

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dom410 in reply toKrn210

Wow I do so many of the same things! Were both smart. Keeping a snack and water is a must. I love the essential oils bracelet. that's a great idea. What is your favorite smell?

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Krn210 in reply todom410

Oh gosh so many! I do not like the smell of roman chamomile, but I feel that it really relaxes me if I am nerved up. What is your favorite oil?

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dom410 in reply toKrn210

Lately I like the bergamot and lavender

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dom410 in reply toKrn210

I just ordered a bracelet for the oils

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Krn210 in reply todom410

You’ll like it!! I wear mine a lot. 😃

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dom410 in reply toKrn210

Man it's hard to find a mens one that's large

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Krn210 in reply todom410

Oh I bet...I didn’t even think of that. My apologies. Is the one you ordered too small?

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dom410 in reply toKrn210

Yea I didn't even thi k about that lol

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Annabelle61

I used to get so anxious going to events - the crowd was one of my triggers I think. If we were high up I would feel nauseous. Now I just try to stay mindful of the event and importantly the people I’m with - I do still close my eyes & breathe deeply if I feel overwhelmed! Enjoy your event/ I’m sure you’ll be happy you went !

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dom410 in reply toAnnabelle61

We were really high up and evertime my mind started pulling in a direction I didn't like I took a deep breath and reminded myself to stay present and I deserved to have fun and relax. I think the beer also helped :)

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Gmaof1

All the time!!!! I've been to many of their concerts and they are fantastic. I thought I was the only one with the excited then major doubt about going thing

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dom410 in reply toGmaof1

It was my first time and I loved it. I'm glad I didn't stay home.

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NeuronerdDoaty

You are so lucky! I hope you’re having a great time

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sweetiepye

It is an amazing show. My husband and I went two years ago. I would like to go again. I have RLS which played up during the performance so I walked over to the handicap area and stood. I try very hard to keep doing things I have always done. It's not always possible, but I refuse to give up any more joy than I have to. Have a lovely night with your family. Pam

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dom410 in reply tosweetiepye

Thanks Pam it was an amazing event.

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Dolphin14

So glad you made it through.

I saw them once. Awesome show!

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dom410 in reply toDolphin14

It was pretty cool. I'd go again

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Dolphin14 in reply todom410

Me too:)

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