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Hi everyone who is not sleeping. Just trying to reach out and find some friendly people or those who can use a simple hello how are you, to let some friends into their lives, and ease the loneliness.

How was your night and day? Good, bad or more of the same?

Yesterday I slept over 12 hours and today I slept just 6. Can’t seem to find a happy middle ground. I am aiming for 7-8 hours a night. So at least 6 hours is closer than 12+.

Looking forward to hearing from you all and hopefully you can find some peace of mind by connecting even a little.

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SaladQueen

Hello, I’m the same. Can I ask how old you are? I’m 58 and my sleep has got steadily worse as I’ve got older.

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Cheetahone in reply toSaladQueen

Sure, I’m 68 years young. I have had bouts with sleep since I was younger. Also, though I’m not sure how true it is, I’ve read that older people need less sleep. But 5 to 6 hours seems too short.

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SaladQueen in reply toCheetahone

My grandfather would fall asleep in his chair for hours so I’m not sure how true that is 😆. 5 to 6 is too short I’m sure. My mother and my friends over 60 all seem to have erratic sleep. I’m all or nothing myself too. I try to eat nuts and take vitamin D and have warm milk etc. Have you googled?

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Cheetahone in reply toSaladQueen

Actually, I turned vegan and I lost over 50 lbs and got off cholesterol and blood pressure medications. So, the effects are pretty dramatic. My depression has gotten better but it’s still interfering with my sleep schedule. I take 50mg sertraline but may need an increase.

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SaladQueen in reply toCheetahone

My goodness that is truly amazing, well done you!

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Dolphin14 in reply toCheetahone

You are not that old:) I remember my mother in her very late 70-80 saying that. All our bodies are different though.

Is your brain spinning?

I slept 12 hours twice this week. Haven't done that in over 15 years. I feel horrible sleeping that long but at the same time I hate to complain.

🐬

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Cheetahone in reply toDolphin14

I wouldn’t be sorry about sleeping that long as for some reason your body needs it. As for complaining, what good is it if you can’t state the facts?🙂

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Dolphin14 in reply toCheetahone

So true!! You are 100% correct

I'm on meds and it messed up my med cycle that's one reason I hate it.

Are you on meds? You do r have to answer that if you don't want. But I have a whopper of a headache because my schedule is off

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Cheetahone in reply toDolphin14

No problem, I’ve posted it before. I’m on sertraline 50mg for the last 4 months.

That’s a good point. I never considered how taking the pills at different times can affect their effectiveness. Got to work on that.

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Dolphin14 in reply toCheetahone

I mentioned this to my psychiatrist. After years of telling me she wanted me to sleep things got quite comical when she said I might have to set an alarm to get my meds in on time. We had a good laugh on that.

If I'm more than 3 hours behind on my morning meds it takes my body time to catch up.

We will figure it all out as we go

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Cheetahone in reply toDolphin14

I was considering asking for an increase in dosage but based on your post I think I’ll wait on that and try to take the meds on a consistent schedule. Thanks for the advice and insight.

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Dolphin14 in reply toCheetahone

Maybe have the discussion with your prescriber. I would love to know what their thoughts are if you decide to discuss with them

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Cheetahone in reply toDolphin14

Thanks, I will talk with my prescriber in February at my next appointment. I will try to let you know her suggestion.

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Dolphin14 in reply toCheetahone

Awesome

Best of luck :)

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Downinil

Hi Cheetahone! Connection on here has helped me tremendously. I struggle with sleep some nights. Sleep deprivation makes everything feel worse.

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Cheetahone in reply toDowninil

You’re right Downinil about sleep deprivation. I just replied to someone else who inspired me about how it messes with depression and anxiety meds.

As for help from this site, you’re right again. My therapist said it was a great idea and even that she was proud of me. That alone helped ease my mind.

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Downinil

Lack of enough sleep feeds into the depression.

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Cheetahone in reply toDowninil

You’re so right. I also found that sleeping too much doesn’t help with depression either. When I sleep too long I wake up feeling tired and depressed and anxious.

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Downinil in reply toCheetahone

I find that so as well. We need a sleep schedule.

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