Is my Husband homosexual?

[Rosalma]

I discovered twice that my Husband might be homosexual as he is keen tosearch gays on internet and specially if they have strong muscular bodies. His sexual relation with me is not that good as well from the day we got married. He us depression nd OCD person and take medicines. I used to think that our bad sexual life is due to side effects of medicine. Now story seems to be other. We have recently lots of fights, I am Now entering in depression as I can't stop crying when I fight. He says he loves me and he had no relation with any gay. I don't know what to do. Apart from sexual orientation issue and OCD RITUALS of collecting paper, he is a good person and respects me alot. Please help meeeeeee.

[quitter333]

Maybe bisexual?

Anyways - does he work out? Because, lol, I too have looked at quite a lot of pics of muscular dudes (Im straight as an arrow) because I needed to learn a lot about muscle fibers and how I want to look when I complete my gym plans.

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Ask him if he is info gay furry art as well. Do it for keks.

[Rosalma in reply to quitter333]

My husband don't practice gym, though he says he want to hv muscular body. He as many inferiority complexes,one being his body is just common nd not muscular. He says, he likes muscular bodies of gays but he himself is not and try avoiding every possible thing that can make him look like a gay. Problem is our own sexual life is bad. He has no initiative. I needed to ask always. But after this second gay stuff magazine's that I discovered hidden, I am devastated and feel cheated.

[quitter333 in reply to Rosalma]

well. you got two options.

1. Confront him. He confesses he's gay. You both accept it and continue as friends.

2. He confesses he's gay. You both make a scene, and you secretly hope he is the one being f**d in the butt. Laugh about it. Move on to a more manly man.

3. Maybe, and it would take your interests firstly - do some domination things in bed? Like, screw him. If you are into it. Maybe he just wants to be the "weak gender" in bed and man in other parts of life.

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That's about all there is. All options sound like fun times in your near future haha

[lifecoachtoronto]

I appreciate your sharing and being vulnerable!

What kind of help would you like to get here?

What would an ideal result of discussing this with your husband look like?

Who else is in your family?

[Rosalma in reply to lifecoachtoronto]

I would like to know about your thoughts about it. If he is a homosexual and hiding. What should I do. Have talked with him on this issue many times.

I fear I am going to waste my life with him with all such confusions.

I am very much upset about this.

[Ragdoll15 in reply to Rosalma]

Try to get him to have some type of talking therapy this may help him to access his life.

[lifecoachtoronto in reply to Rosalma]

I do a few hours of pro bono coaching each week. Reach out to me by following a link in my profile, and I'll be happy to talk about your situation.

[Hidden]

I would say definitely gay or bi. No straight guy is checking out gay porn or mags period. My first husband was gay or bi. I found out he had been with men after we got married. We are divorced now. I am happy now with a new husband and kids. Be gentle with him as he may be ashamed but it just won't work for you in the long run.

[Rosalma in reply to Hidden]

Hv sent u inbox msg.

[Pamela2876]

I am sorry you are facing this. I understand what you are going through someone very close to me was found doing similar things and it was very difficult to confront. I would suggest checking out this resource bit.ly/2NIjpCG. You may find it helpful.