I'm done.

[AnIslandOfPeace]

They said I'd fail and I did just that.

[kenster1]

hi don't listen to people who said you would fail.look at it as a setback and go again more determined and stronger than before.forget about other peoples opinions of you its you that counts to yourself.

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to kenster1]

But I did fail.

[kenster1 in reply to AnIslandOfPeace]

the more people doubt us the more it creeps into our head and we go through life believing its true.take a step back assess everything that you want to change for you and do all you can to make it better.do it for yourself and no one else because your not a failure by any means.

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to kenster1]

Thanks a lot, Kenster, thanks a lot.

[sweetiepye in reply to kenster1]

brilliant Kenster. Sage advice.

[Hidden]

Okay so you failed...that doesn't mean you can't have a go at it again...please don't be so hard on yourself....it doesn't matter what people have to say, someone always has an opinion...let it go......you count because there's only one you and that makes you oh so special!

Dump trucks of love, peace, light, joy and groovy hugs!

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Hidden]

You know, I've tried countless times and failed countless time. I really want to have one more go but I don't have the means. I'm really done.

[Starrlight in reply to AnIslandOfPeace]

(((((((((((Hug))))))))))

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Starrlight]

Thanks.

[Sillysausage234]

Anyone who instilled this thought pattern on you failed

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Sillysausage234]

They are right.

[Sillysausage234 in reply to AnIslandOfPeace]

Ok...you mean never fulfilled your potential? Could of done better academically??how about what are you like as a human being because I’ve seen you help people on here with your replies wouldn’t say you failed as a caring person..

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Sillysausage234]

Alright, you finally got me to smile. I think I'm not all bad then. Thanks a lot.

[Sillysausage234 in reply to AnIslandOfPeace]

😁🤗

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Sillysausage234]

Lol.

[Dolphin14]

Prove them wrong.

I grew up being told I would never be anything. I blew them out of the water and you can too.

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Dolphin14]

I'm really tired at the moment. I'm not sad or something, I just accept that I've failed.

[Dolphin14 in reply to AnIslandOfPeace]

What have you failed at?

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Dolphin14]

I can't talk about it here even though I really want to talk. I don't think people will understand.

[Dolphin14 in reply to AnIslandOfPeace]

Ok

We are here when you are ready

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to Dolphin14]

Thanks.

[fauxartist]

I've started over, failed, started over, failed again, and started over....that's how life is, and when we fail....we learn what we need to fix, some times we just have to change the way we are living our life, humble ourselves, take a step back, and then move forward again. I have been through hell in my life...and if anyone should have given up a long time ago it was me when my first therapist told me I was a lost cause....I would either be a hooker, nun, or junkie dead or in prison with my dysfuntional childhood....I'm still here.

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to fauxartist]

Hmm. It's too much already.

[joibronxen]

Unfortunately, I am not very encouraging at the moment. Everything that everyone said to you was great advice! But I'm kind of in the same boat as you. So, the best I have to offer is the knowledge that other people's words and conditioning are cripplingly powerful. Whether it's a self fulfilling prophecy or maybe just that you fail over and over again...you are not over there by yourself. I'm in there with you.

[AnIslandOfPeace in reply to joibronxen]

I don't know how it sounds but thanks a lot.