Frustrated. Needing advice

[ktwilliams4]

Anxiety always gets so high when my in laws lie about there youngest son being around my home and around my child. Specially when we tell my m.i.l that her youngest made his own decision and bed for him to lay in. And that is on him. She always wants to talk about her medical issues but never will give a crap about her oldest son (my husband) and our family. Just irks my nerves and they live with us excluding the youngest son since he chose some very bad habits that we will not tolerate. They don’t help with bills or anything but expect you to go above and beyond for them! All I say is Hell No. and I’m always made out to be the bad guy and the bitch and physcho and the list goes on about the names I get called. Just simply toxic and the only time when my husband and I fight is over them. My husband and I both work so hard and we just don’t seem to accomplish much anymore.

[Blessed36]

You and your husband , need your own space, this family sounds very toxic and it's hurting your health, you will never get better until you have some type of peace. Some days just you and your husband take a walk , just the two you. To find peace and talk. Talk about just positive things, and ways to make your situations better. Like finding your own place and work towards that goal. In the meantime, do yoga this helps calm the mind down find a quite place, or get some headphones with soft music and do yoga. The headphones will drown out the toxic unwanted noise around the house. Love and stay strong.