Feeling so stupid

Seriously feeling like none of my friendships never will workout, I always feel like I'm not worth it. I can never keep friends, I have this burning negativity in me that everything bad will always happen. I try to be positive but I am aware how the negative forces are always on me no matter where I go. This generation sucks, everyones addicted to technology and no one knows how to speak up about their true feelings. I feel like all my friends are betraying me and I dont date. Im ugly. Im sad. There is no hope😬

[dore13]

I know how you feel, I hate to say this, but I am use to being an outcast. Through the years I learned to keep my opinions mostly to myself, and I try to step back from situations that I know will trigger a negative response. As for dating, I have a theory, maybe the type of person that you want to date isn't in your area, but somewhere else far away.

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Exactly!!

[SirGrits]

Hang in there restartgreentea.

If you go to church, have you thought about joining a small group? If not, consider joining a church. Once there, try & relax and let the connections come to you.

Regardless, try & relax around your potential friends--that's usually contagious.

[Ldd199]

I wish I had something really helpful to say here. I go through phases where I’m the same way and I wonder why anyone talks to me because I’m so boring/pathetic/something else negative. What I’ve found is that most friendships really don’t last, and that’s okay, because the few people I’ve stayed friends with are really sincere friends. Maybe you need a different avenue towards finding friendship or social interactions? Some of the best friends I’ve ever made are people I found by pen palling.

[Kevin160]

I know how you feel , i used to be at some point the person who people didnt like to hang with , i was never interested in their activities , and maybe it was a bit fault on my oart , but then i started being a bit more strict with people , not getting tricked easily , or just act like a doormat , not implying you are or act like that , but sometimes people take advantage of people because they know their personalities , try to engage in some of their activities , but never change for anyone , especially change for the worse , if you never feel comfortable about doing smth for someone or you feel forced , this is blackmail or slavery not friendship ..you will find a friend who feels the same way like you do about them , trust me , there is always a way thorugh social media , school , public events , try to be more open and less scared about facing people , feel ok itll be fine , everything happens for a reason