bad day

[Eshepard]

I was in an emotional, sometimes physical, abusive relationship. After almost two years he eventually had a rage attack and left me, saying he’s into another girl and he’s tired of us. That happened one month ago. After the abuses I started to suffer from depression and agoraphobia, and today was a bad day. I wonder if he was really becoming the gentle and loving man I wanted him to be. I feel alone and I want to contact him and talk to him. I feel lost, I really thought I could spend the rest of my life with him and I think that maybe nobody else will love me like him.

[hypercat54]

No he never could be no matter how much you wished he could. Lots of 🚩🚩🚩🚩. Run a mile before you let him back in your life. Men (nor women) change like this and its useless wanting them to.

[Shnookie in reply to hypercat54]

Totally agree with you.

[optimismrus]

It's common for some of us to break off a relationship that's not working, then after a short time start blaming ourselves. You probably shouldn't contact him and instead work on being your own best friend. You deserve more. 🥰

[Shnookie in reply to optimismrus]

Excellent advice

[hypercat54]

 Eshepard I noticed this is the 3rd post you have put up and had 11 replies so far. I can't see you have responded to any of them.

Is there a reason why as people will eventually stop replying to you if they get no feedback if they don't know you have seen any of their replies? Or whether they were helpful or not.

Not having a go or anything but just curious.