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Ahhhh he put me through so much shit he told me to kill myself and that hated me and so much stuffff. He just came back after I posted a picture like nothing told me he was feeling sad and I responded he never use to respond when I was feeling bad never ever but I did oh my gosh it’s so frustrating and he kept threatening me that if I didn’t tell him who I was talking to he would kill himself sending me pictures of him cutting and pictures of bleach in a glass and his fingers how he punched up a wall. He broke up with meeeeee oh my gosh I’m so frustrated I don’t even know if I’m making sense. Then he messaged like two of his friends like if I’m messaging them. Not only am I embarrassed but I am also so deeply hurt. If I didn’t tell him who I was talking to he threatened to message everyone in his contact list if I was messaging them. I can’t handle this I’m finically getting over him after two months and he’s just so ihnhujgujfdzvj manipulative oh my giiioooood

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Jeff1943

Tell him you are going to report him to the police for harrassment if he gives you any more trouble. His threats are childish beyond belief. This man is trouble for any woman he gets into a relationship. You are well rid of him. After warning him I would ignore him but if he continues to harrass you go straight to the police with proof. People who advertise their intention to major self harm never do.

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Sunflower89 in reply toJeff1943

Thank you for this. I will definitely keep the police thing in mind

Please stop all contact with him immediately! I completely agree with Jeff, report him to the police! You don’t want to be anywhere near this guy! Please stay strong & you’ll someday find the right man for you. He did you a favor by breaking it off months ago! Leave him in the dust, girl!

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Thank you. Yes I would look into taking legal action

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SlothTamer

You are better off staying out of contact and away from this person. Please keep track of all of these past threats and do not continue the conversation or respond. It is

Worth notifying the authorities at this point. They may not be able to do anything but it would show you are not going to tolerate this emotional abuse and helps lay the groundwork for future prosecution, if warranted.

No one is going to tell you to stay in touch or get involved with this person. He is emotionally abusing you by getting you tangled into his web. I hope my words don’t sound too harsh. My best intention is to hopefully give you strength and hope you realize you are strong!

Peace and strength to you! :)

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Sunflower89 in reply toSlothTamer

You’re not being harsh I appreciate this so much. Thank you.

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Lazy_dog_lover

1 Block him 2 You deserve better. No one has a right to abuse another. 3 Do not respond to his posts. Just delete. I am not familiar with Instagram, can you set up a way to prevent him from seeing your posts? Do not let him guilt you back into a relationship.

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Maagaa

Sunflower please go to the local authorities and get a order of protection and also a no contact order. Went through something similar years ago with my daughters ex he did not do as she asked to please leave her alone. She stopped answering his messages but he had the nerve to come to my front door and also to business and throw a brick through the plate glass window. He will not leave you alone until you get a higher authority involved. Be careful of every move you make and never be alone at night. God Bless

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Samson1953

please be careful. he could come after you physically.

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Strongest123

Your ex obviously needs serious help. But you need to put yourself 1st. Someone that tells another person to kill themselves? Not good. Take care. Samson

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