Even though past is past and I try not to let it get to me, but there are times when I feel down where I get thoughts from the past, all the way to my school years.
I live near a small town where everyone almost knows each other. Who I was before, my attitude, the way I acted is obviously going to impact the way others treat or think of me.
When I see on social media, former classmates together and all that, I feel kinda like an outcast, the former high school loser that nobody really likes to get to know.
I feel ashamed of myself looking back, as to why I was such a boring little weirdo, a wuss who couldn't even talk more than one or two sentences.
There was no need to be a goodie and nice all the time, it just makes others take advantage of you, no one including teachers wont thank you for it.
I feel ashamed I couldn't stand up for myself, that I threatened one of my classmates with a kitchen knife in catering class.
He now owns a supermarket in town, sometimes if I do see him, I remember what I did, I also remember the torment and humiliation too.
Saw his dad in a shop today, he was glaring at me from the other till. I tried not to look, but he was staring, it made me feel uncomfortable. Don't know why he was staring, maybe he remembers what I did, maybe he just thinks I'm a weirdo...
I get thoughts of college, how certain people would take advantage, how I would try hard to fit in and end up looking like a fool.
It angers me how I was so daft and pathetic and let otgers walk over me. How I was so quiet most of the times, unable to say things.
One thing that stands out was the constant bullying and humiliation by these 2 girls... (yeah, a guy being bullied by girls)
They would constantly tease me, ask me sexual and awkward questions in front of everyone, sometimes in front of thd teachers making me appear thick.
My fault really, like when she asked who I went with at the college party and named all the boys who I was in the taxi with......(idiot)
I just couldn't fight back, only time I hit one of them was when she kept pinching me, then hit me on the balls, so slapped her head and pushed her.
But that just made things worse, she kept telling everyone I grabbed her tits.
Her bf threatened he would kill me once..... so I took my pen knife out and begged him to do it then. Then threatened to kill her friend in front of her to make her fear me.
Nobody reported it to the police, but everyone in town who were from school including my sister found out eventually.
I was always used to get confused or paranoid, whether people are talking about me, taking advantage or serious.... it's like everyone's brain was more advance to mine.
Sometimes I wish the cops did know, or maybe that I jumped from the college roof or something, so I don't need to live anymore.
After college, I was working with the forestry, got a job from my dad's friend.
I didn't like my co-workers, I tried to get a long, but I often felt I was taken advantage of, they often pile the hard work on me, even get ne to do things I have no qualifications or license to do like this machine that cuts trees, I had the sack after an accident at work.
He never looks at me these days... if I pass him in town.
I regret that I made myself a pushover, that I didn't stand up for myself. That I did things I shouldn't be doing, that could've killed or injured someone, like operating machinery without proper training.
After that I got depressed, some kids in town stoke my car and crashed it. I was angry, hated everyone, with hate....
I hacked their social media accounts, as well as former classmates, doing very sad and pathetic things. Not sure if they knew it was me, but I sometimes feel they do. It was really stupid, and I regret it.
I now work at home with my parents. I often find people intimidating, especially those around my age and younger.
If a person looks or acts cheeky, I feel uncomfortable around them, sometimes they remind me of soneone else, I find looking for another job scary, I often feel everyone still thinks I'm some idiot, a weirdo, a bit slow in the head.
I feel ashamed of who I was, the things I did and who I really am.
I regret and find it hard to change and just let go even if some of these are like 10 years ago.
I sometimes feel unsure if I see someone I know, if I should avoid and pretend not to know them or smile and say hi... some of them ignore me or look like I'm a daft one.
This guy who was really chatty and I felt a little at ease talking to, he doesn't talk to me anymore, sometimes he'd wave and say hello, but I sometimes feel I did something wrong to him when I didn't, like he'd try to avoid me if possible, even my former high school teacher.
Maybe they hate me...I don't know...
I often think I should make friends with people in town who used to know me from school. Some, I would have to see them anyway, like one of the guys building our roof, (he's alright, but I still remember what I been doing before).... or them in the bank or shop.
I have friends, but not from this area, they live abroad....
Because of above, I feel awkward about having a girlfriend, whether she'd wonder why I'm a loner, no friends, what others might tell her.
I wish I was more lively, confident and outgoing and also sensible....
I feel nothing but hate for myself, I look back and think....what an idiot.....
Most of it was my own doing, my fault, my stupidity, my ignorance and naivity.
I am not as easy to take advantage of, well, I think I'm not, I learned takwondoo.
Recently met my uncle from America for the first time. Just couldn't say much, was awkward, repeating the same thing and embarrassingly too awkward.... I feel slow and ashamed to ever see him again.
He jokingly said to my dad, that I'm a chatterbox.