Hating work!!!!

[lovedogs51511]

The ppl I work with are assholes to be honest!!! They treat me like a disease and I shouldn't have to put up with it!!!! I can't quit cause I need the money. I hate being around them. They are mormon, young and clickish!!! I don't want to play into their drama I'm way too old for that. Any suggestions on how to deal with this would be great!!! I don't want to go to the supervisor cause I'm new and that will make things worse!!!! Please help me before I snap!!!!

[Hidden]

Breathe. That's step number one. Remember yourself and compose yourself. Try to treat them respectfully, and they should do the same to you. Keep business-like relations with them, and don't get caught in the middle of drama. Keep your distance and do your job. If you prove yourself a good worker, your boss should stay on your side if an argument does arise. Good luck.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Breathe I'm doing but they go and hide all three of them. No one is around to help and I'm so beyond pissed off but breathing!!!! I'm here to do my job and get the Hell out of here at 6:30 am. Ugh only 6 hrs to go! I hope your right.

[Hidden]

Hello, just Pray for evil people the Devil always busy in our workplace.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Oh your so right!!! The devil they are!!! Lol. I'm sticking to my section and doing my job. All I can do

[Tlacuatzin in reply to lovedogs51511]

Let them hide. Who are they anyways. Nobodies. Let them do their gossiping and their judging. If you have the patience to get to know one of them better, like outside of work, then that might break up the feud to make room for some real understanding, but otherwise let them do their stupid little middle school cafeteria thing. You keep your mind on the things that you like. And on that damn paycheck. If it were me I woulda left penniless a long time ago so kudos for being an adult about all this.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Tlacuatzin]

Thanks its taking everything to not say f..k u guys!!! Their still young so yea I'm way too old to participate in those little drama games!!! Iv e been doing ok so far just checked on residents and now watching tv. Time is going so slow!!! Thanks for talking me thru this immature nonsense😄😄 I would never want to know any of them outside work!!! But I get what your saying! Thanks again. Hope your having a great night😄😄

[Starrlight in reply to lovedogs51511]

You are so strong my friend! I love ya so !!!

[Sillysausage234]

Have a good old rant swear as much as you like we hear you ☝️🌞

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Sillysausage234]

I'd love to swear at them. They are immature and I hate working with them but have no choice! I'm glad I'm not being irrational but man this is painful!! Only 5 hrs to go😭😭 Too old to engage in bullshit! Thanks for writing to me! How ya doing tonight?

[Sillysausage234 in reply to lovedogs51511]

Hi only 41/2 hours now I meant swear on your post get your frustrations out🙂I’m just getting up it’s morning time u.k 🇺🇸🇬🇧No don’t allow yourself to engage in b.s. and get wound up use all your superpowers and rise above it ☝️🌞good luck

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Sillysausage234]

Oh that's so awesome your in the U.K.! Ppl there are so nice and respectful! Thanks for writing cause I'm just ignoring these fools! Are you headed to work? What time is it there??? Thanks for the good luck cause ill need it😄😄

[Sillysausage234 in reply to lovedogs51511]

No work for me nowadays I’m written off as unworkable but used to do plumbing/ maintenance and have come across lots of b.s in my time,I’ve got lots of stuff in the garden to do,the sun is shining today 🌞enjoy your thanksgiving day over there not long to endure now Olivia has some good suggestions 🍀🕊ps 9 am ish

[Hidden in reply to Sillysausage234]

Enjoy the gardening Alan! It’s a sunny day here too...

Yeh I’ve had some BS in workplaces in the past too..it’s truly not nice...

Have a lovely day 🌺🌺

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks Olivia ,🙂 you enjoy the day too go and treat yourself again to a lunch out 🍀🌞🕊x

[Hidden in reply to Sillysausage234]

😊 too flipping tired today lol ...I’m gonna watch couple movies or catch up tv I think...

Take care 😊

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Hidden]

You do that and enjoy your films 🤘🙂

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks to you both and have a very happy thanksgiving with family!!!😄 Ill be alone but I'm so tired all I want to do is sleep😄😄 thanks again you guys!!!

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

Rest up love dogs...

I’m in uk so don’t celebrate Thanksgiving..

Was there once to celebrate it was lovely ..

Take care..x

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Oops I just saw you guys don't celebrate turkey day!!! Well enjoy the sunny day!!! Hugs Olivia😄😄

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Sillysausage234]

Sounds really nice to work in garden under the morning sun!! Nice. Enjoy😄 I wouldn't work but disability doesn't cover rent or bills! Enjoy today and happy turkey day!!!

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

Hey girl if you want give me a call today, I sure do miss talking to you! I love you so very much!

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

I would but my folks changed to consumer cellular and I can't call long distance anymore it sucks. Can't send pics or anything. Its a bare bones phone company. I think when I get home ill fall down exhausted cause I'm so ready for bed right now. I miss talking to you too very MUCH!!!😄😄😄

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

Is your number the same if so let me know when a good time is to call you! You know I will! Love, peace, light, joy & hugs for you beautiful!

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Ok when I get home from riding this sucky scooter in this 30 degree weather all I want to do is drop dead from exhaustion. Ill be frozen so all I'm going to do is turn heat on, climb under the covers and fall fast asleep!! Oh Happiest thanksgiving to you and the family!!! Hi Lou!!!

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

You go home & get warm & cozy. Do you want me to call you someday? XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Of course silly I was just thinking ill be so exhausted when I get home but today ill be sleeping but tomorrow I don't have to work until 10 pm so during the day would be perfect!!! I can't wait to hear from you!!! Fill me in tomorrow ok. Love so MUCH!!!!😄😄

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

You just get yourself ready for one beautiful long talk, hahaha! Have beautiful sweet dreams my precious girl!Love, peace, light, joy & hugs for you! Oh hahaha....I love ya more!

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Ill be ready once I'm rested and away from here!!! That's for sure!!! Beautiful dreams I sure will💗💗 Loves you so very MUCH😄😄😊💗

[Hidden]

Lovedogs.

Maybe that’s why you are new there, maybe they keep doing this to everyone that gets a job there...maybe the supervisor or manager is wondering why people keep leaving. You can bet your bottom dollar your not the first one, and who knows the others may have complained..

Management won’t want to keep interviewing...I know when your new it feels like you can’t say anything...but if it comes down to affecting your health too much or you feel your gonna snap, well worth seeing if you can have a confidential chat with whoever that would be...at that stage there would be nothing to lose..because you would end up leaving anyways, so may as well try telling and resolving...

It is so difficult and a horrible situation to be in...and I’m so sorry it’s happening to you.

Not long to go now and that shift will be over..

Every good wish 🌺🌼🌺🌼 xx

[lovedogs51511]

Your so right cause I bet they bully everyone but they all get along with each other cause they're all Mormons and irritate me beyond belief!!! I'm just trying to do my job and if I need their help ill call them but so far I'm just watching tv cause residents are all asleep right now. They go hide or text each other and laugh in front of me so I'm way too old to fall into their stupid drama!!! 46 years old So I am just trying to stay to myself!!! Thanks for writing me cause I'm barely hanging on!!! I appreciate your advice!! I can't snap even tho I wish I could!!! Lol!! It sucks but I'm just counting down the hours.....

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

Yes I know, none of us need drama in the workplace...it’s just Ill health provoking too, your doing the right thing to do your best and do your job and calling on them when you need, ignoring their silly antics..

Just keep check on your health...I’ll health because of these people is not worth the price we pay...

Keep telling us here. It does help to get it out

Make the most of chilling watching tv...doing some breathing exercises 😊

I am sorry it’s like this for you.

🌹🌹 xx

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

I'm so not letting them get to me! I hate these fools!!! Like you said it will affect my health and sanity!! I very much grateful for you guys on here! Your angels!😄 Doing breathing excersies!! I'm so tired but good show is on thank God!! Happy thanksgiving Olivia!!! Your a dear😄😄😎😎

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

Look after yourself ❤️🌺🌺 and keep letting us know how it’s going..xx

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Well one more round and then give report and go home! Counting the seconds until I can go! I'm just sticking to myself! All I can do😄😄😄 thanks Olivia! Happy turkey day😄

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

😊 Im thinking of you, that’s not nice what you are experiencing..

Happy turkey day to you too...get lots of nice rest and recuperation...xxx

[quitter333]

"I can't quit" is the biggest lie people tell themselves and instead choose to suffer mental peoblems. For few pieces of paper.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to quitter333]

I would quit but then they win and I can't have that!! I'm truckin along doing my job and ignoring the bullshit! Thanks!!!

[quitter333 in reply to lovedogs51511]

I'd suggest looking over that. I work with big projects sometimes and we simply overlook interests of a lot of individuals for the good of whole organization. There is no "they" you should beat (you can per se, of course). You should be concerned with your happiness and health rather than "them". All your wrongdoers probably have their own bad things in life, you just don't see it.

I treat my work as a vessel, a pirate ship - we adventure together, but I am not bound here. I respect my colleagues, but at the end of the day we are just a band of people with somewhat same desire at this point in life.

If I develop a certain vision in life, I will try to persuade my shipmates to follow me, but if they don't I cannot do other than leave on the next stop.

Life is not meant to hold grudges

As goes for money - I was completely broke (not the right word - I was super in debt and went away from a job I hated). And whatdoyouknow - once you start hustling around you discover it's not so hard to earn money often finding the most brilliant ways and people in this short spur of hustling.

So I forever stopped being too worried about money. Yeah it would be nice to earn millions, yeah it's easily possible if you work a lot, but it is also not that hard to survive rather comfortably.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to quitter333]

I so wish I was a millionaire too. No one treats you like dirt when your rich! Iv e always been poor so all I know is putting up with bullshit! I really wish I was making good money like you but I'm on disability and stuck working part time in a miserable assisted living care facility. Wish I would of chose a better paying job!!! Have a great Thanksgiving😄😄😄

[Hidden]

Yes Breathe, then you hold your head up high. Once again kill them with kindness. My grandma always said you get a bear with honey, not vinegar! I sure hope they can see how kind you are & what a beautiful soul also! I love ya bunches!

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

Good morning my dear friend😄😄 Hope you are doing wonxerful! I'm just dying being here! I'm so done with this shift! Sticking with myself and doing the job! Jeff here is helping me with the difficult residents so its nice. The other two are immature b....s!!! Can't stand them they refuse to help. Real nice right??? Sucks but I hate them so no biggie!!! How are you doing? Still kicking anxieties ass??? How's the family?

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

Oh I'm so sorry they treat you like this. It breaks my heart for you, no way do you deserve this, they will answer 1 day & you should be happy that you don't have to. Please call me when you can, I'm going through withdrawls from you, hahaha! I love you more than I can put into words!

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

I bet I love you more silly lady😄😄 Your such a dear to me!!!! I'm going thru withdrawals from you too😊 I just want to go home! Counting the seconds till I go home! I'm so tired Lisa! Long and busy shift. I feel like throwing up right now.

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

Oh man that stinks, you go home & get the rest you deserve! Hahaha.....I miss you more! Dump trucks of love, peace, light, joy & hugs beautiful you!

[Hidden in reply to lovedogs51511]

No the anxiety is still here but I'll keep battling!

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Hidden]

I hear ya I'm taking my cbd oil praying it keeps me be calmer than usual. I have extreme anxiety working with these Alzheimer's residents!!! They fight you when their pissed. Ugh. Nobody has hit me yet but hair has been pulled lol. I sure hope we can both battle this darn anxiety😄😄

[Thelma_Gh]

I am in the situation... I cry almost every night and sometimes i wish 2moro never comes. I cant quite bcos I have loan to pay.😪😪😪

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Thelma_Gh]

I'm so very sorry your dealing with the same thing!!! I totally understand your situation cos I'm on disability only working part time!! It sucks. So like u I have no choice but to keep putting up with these jerks!!!

[metalminded]

Hi Kacey!

How did the rest of the night go?

Happy Thanksgiving!

Ignore them, that beats them every time. If they know you are irritated they will keep it up until you leave.

Remember what you're there for.

I bet you'll end up helping one of them and things will change.

You're the elder and you work circles around them. Then they'll get it!

[lovedogs51511 in reply to metalminded]

Same they hid from me hating to have to help me lift heavy residents or ones that are violent. I'm just trying to deal with the bullshit. I just say sorry you have to help me but this resident is a 2 person assist. I want to help them if needed but they don't want my help so its like whatever!!

Happy Thanksgiving to you too!! How was your holiday?? I am always alone for Xmas and thanksgiving so its kind of depressing only cos I don't have a dog. How are you? Hope you've been doing good!!! Hugs my friend!!!

[Ncrazy]

Hey how are you i work in construction your looking for a asshole testosterone convention thats it. I work at a place witch is connected to my church .So its not like i can make a seen or say anything also public doll is so confident ego downer.I love working at the end of the day is so rewarding!Being apart of society stoping at the local sport bar for a cold beer and steak. Having major anxiexty knowing i made threw the day is a great accomplishment.

I grew up in the projects grown adults staying home all day doing laundry and cleaning the house staying awake all night and sleeping all day pretending that laundry and cleaning house was there jobs. I kind felt what a waste of a life.

I go to work never talking about my problems or anxiety.its nice it keeps my mind busy so i dont get anxiety or intrusive thoughts.

[lovedogs51511 in reply to Ncrazy]

I totally get what your saying how work is rewarding. I'm only working a low paying job part time while on disability. So I don't make a lot of money to go out and enjoy life. I'm barely making it month to month. I agree with ya on the anxiety part too! Working causes me so much anxiety so if I get better at my job it will be a major accomplishment to make it thru the day like u said!!! Such a true statement! Thanks for writing to me. Take care and have a great day😄😄