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Hello

I am a bit embarrassed to say this I haven't been to the dentist for year as I am scared but I accept I have to go . I did walk in the door and the staff seem pleasant .

Would it be wired to write a note to dentist to say I would like to be a new patient but scared and embarrassed what state my teeth will be in? . I am not sure if they will judge ? But its not my fault I don't like the dentist .I don't want false teeth so accept I have to go ! Any advice I know this is silly .

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Okay you sound like me, I hate going to the dentist but it is something we must do. I straight up told my dentist I'm terrified & he has been so kind to me, I like him just not what he does, haha! He tells me I'm one of a kind, man do I grip those arms on the chair when I'm there. Believe me if it's only been a year they have seen much worse. Stand strong for you. All the best. Love, peace, light, joy & hugs!

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Hello Anxiety

Glad I am not the only one . Its been much longer than a year but I cannot be the worst . Anyway who carers at least I am trying to go. Thank you for your words

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Don't worry about what they think, everyone has something to say, let it go, who cares? They for sure will not say anything to you, maybe just to brush better & come back...oh & floss too! I'll be with you in spirit. You can do this. Be strong! Love, peace, light, joy & hugs!

P.S. Wouldn't it be nice if the drills made no sound?

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Yes it would . I think I will need a lot of filling so not keen but it is what it is .

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I've been through a root canal, not fun & 2 crowns, not fun, I still have 1 more crown to go, not looking forward to it. If I can do it so can you. Stay strong. Love, peace, light, joy & hugs for you!

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I will I am going to write my letter and explain . Then going on what they say book appointment . Can I private message you for advice ? If you don't want me to private message I will talk to you through this post .

Best wishes

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Sure you can pm me! I'm here for you! Love, peace, light, joy & hugs!

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Thank you I will pm if I can work out how to !

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As an ex dental nurse I can assure you the dentist and staff have seen it all before and will not judge you, you don't have to write a letter, just make an appt and talk to the dentist then.

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Thank you !

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AZ1970

Dentists deal with this all the time. Trust me when I say not being there for a year is no big deal compared to other mouths they have seen. Anxiety at the dentist is not a new thing to them either. I take a Benzo before going and bring my headphones. My son often goes with me and holds my hand and talks me through it. A note would be completely appropriate. Speak up for what you need.

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thank you

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ChillDude342

It's always like that as everyone can't stand dentist, it always gave me anxiety - you just lying there with your mouth open and it really hurts! I still remember when i was a kid - it was hell of week when i had to go there for almost every day to get my teeth done. The only good thing about it was that i hadn't have to to go doc for next 15 years. Last time i've been at dentalspecialists.net/ and things really got better - now they use painkillers for almost every procedure and it feels way better. Thanks god it happen.

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Thank you for this information .

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Hello All

I finally written my letter and I will pop it in the dentist ! Lets hope there understanding then I can make an appointment !! Best wishes

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Wadez

As far as my dental health concerned, I'm very careful and attentive. There's a ton of well-known ways to keep it healthy, but the one I rearly hear about is a water floser. It's a great piece of tech to keep my teeth clean and decay free, The device itself looks like this healthincenter.com/best-wat...

It doesn't cost much but provides a bunch of benefits.

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Thank you for all this information. Best wishes

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Going to register and book an appointment end of Jan and get this all sorted . No more worries !

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Going to ring dentist and ask if I can speak to dentist before making an appointment . I couldn't make an appointment in Jan as to busy .

What is the best dentist to go to private or NHS what would you say the best was for first experience ?

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Update on my post I finally booked an appointment for this month!

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