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Let go of your burdens.

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I am not a model, we are all struggling here, i am not a psychpsychologist, i am Just someone who tries to learn. I can say most of my anxiety, insecurity and depression begun from the moment i allowed myself to get hurt, i was rude to me and people just reflected it back, i suffered on my previous relationship and couldn't stand for myself. I thought i if i used my voice i'd seem rude, arrogant, so instead i put my heart in other people's hand and that's when they became my voice, they did my own choices and i lost my power. The first time i stood for myself and made my point, i went to the bathroom and cried my eyeballs out, i felt like the worst human being in the world, i thought i had no right to expose my point, oh how i was wrong. When i finally realised that saying no could spare me from all my disappointments, i felt like a magical portal opened up in front of me. Guys, it's never too late to stop letting go of what makes you get hurt, in my case, i had no voice, no light, no nothing and it kept me from living my life to the fullest. What's keeping you from living?

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That’s a very insightful post, this world can be a very hard place sometimes. I know definitely for me what is holding me back from living my fullest is my constant worrying. It affects everything in my life and makes me afraid to do things and makes me think ahead of time just to cause myself more stress. Like questions like how will I get home if I am panicking or worrying about anything else. The hard part is you never know what the future will hold and you can easily see your past troubles and think how you could of got past it. But really great post Mandy, it made me really think about myself.

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