Angry and sad

[rrichardson]

My boyfriend or ex (whatever he's called) and I got into an argument sunday and I haven't spoke to him since then. This memorial day will be 2 years since his son took his life and I'm worried about him. The sad thing is he has done this numerous times before. It bothers me and makes me want to give up on him, but when I try I can't help thinking about how great things used to be.

[01harley]

When u say you remember how things used to be. It's in the past tense. If he drops out of sight often and not carrying enough to tell u why so you'll know not to worry, I would kind of think about when he does come back sitting down and asking him why he does this. He should at least have enough respect to give u an answer.

[rrichardson in reply to 01harley]

The same old excuse is given, either his phone dies or in this case he doesn't have one. It's a bunch of bs to be honest and I don't know why I bother. I can't change anyone except myself. I just want a family, but this is not what I want.

[01harley in reply to rrichardson]

Some how the phone thing seems kinda strange. There is like other phones everywhere. If you have been with him 2 years and he's doing the same crap, I would seriously think about moving on. Everyone needs love and to be loved,and to be happy. Wondering and worrying about him all the time will wear u out. Not trying to be mean. Just hate to hear people in that situation.

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I would consider moving on. The honeymoon period is over and his true colors are showing. If you continue to go back it will only enable and confirm his bad behavior. He sounds manipulative.

[rrichardson]

We have been together 3 years. What I said was his son killed himself two years ago memorial day. I understand your point of view and I have long sense accepted that things may not get better. It hurts and I can't seem to fully accept it.