do we have to care about others actions ?

[simple223856]

i am really into it , i do care about things i find even on the road while going home and these thing make me worried a lot , i hate people when the trick me and lie to me without any reason! it make me depressed !

[Tryinghardto]

I feel too hard for other people i will give up anything to just make sure someones happy people tell me i give too much of the little i have but what materialistic **** is more important than helping someone

[simple223856 in reply to Tryinghardto]

helping other is good , and making people happy is even more but people dont care much about people who use to help and make others happy...

[Tryinghardto in reply to simple223856]

*trigger warning* Youre right most people dont but the loss i suffered at 17 made me look at the bigger picture and knowing that i did all i could has helped me get through so many more losses and funerals i think about all those i lost and miss memories with them im at peace though i said and did everything in my heart and they knew how much they meant to me you never know what tomorrow brings and when those material things mean nothing.

[simple223856]

may be u r right but im confused right now

[hypercat54]

Hi one thing I learnt in life was that I couldn't control others words and actions. I could only control how I reacted and dealt with it. Some people in life will want to use and abuse you so learn to be more discerning.

It is admirable to want to help people but beware of being a people pleaser as you can then put their needs above your own. It sounds selfish but you need to put your own wants and needs first coz if you don't take care of yourself then who is going to? It's only when we look after our own well being first that we can be of much help to others. x

[simple223856 in reply to hypercat54]

thanx for advice