So my past few months have been some of the worst of my life. My boyfriend left me, I became pregnant with his child, and I had a miscarriage. Some of my closest friends left after struggling to help me, and I learned that they’ve been telling people that I lied about being pregnant.
It just hurts a lot that they’d do this. They were my best friends. They never asked me to take a pregnancy test, but all of a sudden it’s a bad thing because I never gave them proof, even though I sent some of them my ultrasound.
Life’s just hard. My chest hurts, and I can barely breathe. I’ve been crying and struggling to keep food down. It’s hard enough that I lost my child, but now I’m being made fun of for having feelings. Does anyone have advice on this at all?
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I am so sorry about your miscarriage. Dealing with things on top of that is not easy. Especially when this is critical time that support system would help the most. My only advice would be to seek counseling. I had a difficult time last year and feeling as if I was abandoned by everyone didn’t help so I reached out to a therapist and a year later I can say that it has helped. If that doesn’t work for you. I would suggest reaching out to a friend that you are closest to and explaining to them what you have been going through. Just try not to isolated yourself. Again, I am sorry about everything you have been going through. I will be praying for you ❤️
I’ve seen a therapist once and am going again Wednesday. This issue is just kind of new. I appreciate you understanding. I still have a few good friends, I just feel I’m losing my closest ones and that I’m just going to continue to lose people you know?
Yes I get. It feels that way cause everything is happening at the same time. But it’s good you are going back to a therapist and your few good friends can possibly turn into some close ones once you feel comfortable reaching out.
UPDATE: After speaking to some people, turns out my ex has been telling people I bought a fake ultrasound to pretend to be pregnant. I’m officially done with life
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Rough night
Loneliness and Anxiety 
Feeling alone
Anxiety makes me feel insecure 
friends leaving
