Has anyone had to face flying despite their phobia of it, what did you do? My husband has this fear due to an incident when he flew one time. I love to travel and that was my escape from reality. A vacation. Visiting other states ,countries, etc now I am stuck. 7 years and I have not been anywhere but nearby from where I live. I have spoken to him that next year my oldest will be graduating college and she wants us all to go to Hawaii. I am going with or without him, he has been looking at videos, any suggestions?