I’m so beyond emotional right now, I don’t know if I want to cry, scream, or get so angry that I can’t control what I say and do.
I have a 14year old adopted daughter that feels she is in charge of the house. She has NO respect for me. She belittles me and tells her friends that I’m her step-mom or better yet she refers to me as her dad’s wife. I’ve pulled out her birth certificate and showed her where it says Mother says my name. She doesn’t care. And because she is “daddy’s princess” I cannot do a thing. She steals from me, even when I go in her room and show him all the things of mine she took, she says she has no clue how they got in her room and her dad believes her. He says since he has never seen her do it, so he thinks it hasn’t happened.
I have come to resent my own daughter now and I feel like a monster for feeling that way. She is beyond manipulative and everyone in the family sees it but her dad.
How do I live under these circumstances? How do I handle it? How can I stop being such a monster?