Thank you

[Janieliza]

Hi lovelies, a quick update on how things are going here and a thank you to you all for the amazing support you've shown me. Lulu is brighter, her anxiety has reduced a little and she's slept through the night. She's been laughing(at my expense but it was sooo worth it) and for a while there was nothing negative in her beautiful head and I treasure those moments. She asked me earlier if I was disappointed in her for being "abit down". Goodness no. It's hard for her to understand how she makes me smile, how I adore every bone in her body and every breath she takes. I smile because lulus lulu. No more and no less. Thankyou once again for being here for me. If anyone needs a shoulder....please give me a nudge, if I can help..i will. I do think about you all and I'm here, silently willing you all to get thro another day. Huggles as always

Janie 💋 xxx

[Sprinkle1]

I am SO Glad you two had a good night, sorry I missed you first email, I wish you both well and send you a pile of love and lots of hugs. Sprinkle 1

[Janieliza in reply to Sprinkle1]

Thankyooou sprinkle, I was posting to the other forum until a lovely friend pointed it out so my apologies for that. Sending that pile of love right back at you. Hugs xx

[Windy101]

Hugs to you, too - so glad to hear that things are going so much better.

[Janieliza in reply to Windy101]

Thankyou lovely for your kind words xx

[Sprinkle1]

To Janieliza I am not always sure I answer the correct mail, but seeing as you sent lots of love and well wishes I will gladly accept them, and bounce a whole pile back in return to you, I am in a very bad state now and can use all the support I can get. I see you often here and you have lots of good wishes for people, thank you. Take good care of yourself. Love to you and big hugs Sprinkle 1. ooo xxx

[Janieliza in reply to Sprinkle1]

Thankyou lovely and the supports always here when you need it. Lulu not so good tday as she's caught a nasty bug...if it's not one thing it's another isn't it? There's an awful virus doing the rounds and poor lulu has the symptoms so I'm on edge a little but always here willing you all on. Hugs xx

[Hopeful-Tinkerbell]

That is wonderful! I wish I could meet you both because you both sound so amazing! ❤️

[Janieliza in reply to Hopeful-Tinkerbell]

Thankyou lovely...what kind words. I'm touched thankyou. Lulu really isn't well, as her immune systems compromised anyway fighting colds and viruses is a real task for her. She's sleeping right now so I'm just taking 5 xx

[Hopeful-Tinkerbell in reply to Janieliza]

At least she is resting. I know the love a mother has for her baby! You just take care of you as best you can as well! A hot bath, nap etc. It’s not an easy road but such a rewarding one! You got this momma!

[Janieliza in reply to Hopeful-Tinkerbell]

Thanks sweetie. I'm having one of those down moments ..y'know? Rang her father as she asked for him and he's going on vacation...well pls just call in so she can see you. He doesn't want to catch her cold. I have no words so I put my machine on so he could leave her a message. "I'll bring you back something nice" excuse my language but wtfudge? She doesn't care about little presents...she wants her daddy. Aaanyway I shall have to do until he returns. She doesn't usually ask for him...so I'm shocked he couldn't give 2 mins. Neverrrr mind. Huggles xx

[Hopeful-Tinkerbell in reply to Janieliza]

He’s not a mom! She has the best. That’s awful! Believe me my sons father is a piece of work! Hasn’t seen my son but twice in over a year. It’s ridiculous but we can only give them our unconditional love twice as much. I hope he runs into something with much more than a cold! She’s lucky to have you! It’s after 4 am here. I need to go to sleep! Just do the best you can and know that you are doing your best. That’s all you can do and as a mom is more than enough. He needs to be held accountable. You don’t have to make excuses for him. Just be you and let him be him. She knows who’s there. I know she may feel hurt but you can’t force a jerk to not be a jerk. Don’t let him get you down! Just be there for LuLu and that’s all you can do. You have enough to worry about. Take care of you and LuLu. It’s up to him to consider her and their relationship. That is not your fault.

[Janieliza in reply to Hopeful-Tinkerbell]

Thankyou so much for that lovely...i sometimes need telling lol. Night night xx

[Florida1959]

Hugs back at both of you , take care, keep in touch x