Heartbroken

[Bbhealth]

Hello, I'm struggling with anxiety from a bad breakup. Recently moved as well, so a lot of change. Some days are better than others. I tried to start dating again and got disappointed. I think I need to work on my emotions before I date anymore. I guess it's a distraction. Any how thanks for letting me share.

[laurennsmithshrm]

Hi,

I completely understand. I'm in the same boat with the exception of dating someone. She's amazing and has been supportive despite us starting a relationship quickly following my break up. It has been stressful dealing with my emotions and growth to undo scars. I think the best thing to do is to take time for yourself. I wish I had taken more time, but I'm getting through things with my present partner. Just a background, my ex was an alcoholic, verbally/physically abusive, and cheated on me physically/emotionally with other women. Sooooo, you can imagine my trepidation to venture into a relationship and trust a new person. It has NOT been easy. Work on yourself and you'll know when the right one comes along.

[km147]

only you are in control of your thoughts. try not to let the actions of people affect how you feel about yourself. that is something I also have to work on. i'm sorry you have having trouble in the dating sphere. I hope you find someone who is worth it.