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I'm new here and I feel like my world has been turned upside down the past few weeks. I suffered a miscarriage then a few weeks later I went to the ER and was told after all tests had been run that I had costochondritis. Followed by a pinched nerve in my neck. I've been more to the doctor in the last few weeks then I have my entire life. I feel saturated with anxiety and it has got to the point that I only feel comfortable and safe in my bed.

[Abby14]

I have never had a miscarrige ( I can"t have Kids ) but my sister has had a few & they are heartbreaking & seriously under esmatied! I am so sorry for your loss & i hope you can go on to have kids

[Hidden in reply to Abby14]

Thank you. It was a traumatic experience that I suppressed and it is now seeping out. I'm sorry you're not able to have children.

[Abby14 in reply to Hidden]

Thanks I find it hard sometimes as I love kids I worked in a nurseies & loved it! I can"t work now coz of ill health But next door to me have 2 lovely kids & I am always talking to them over the fence or playing with them, when we go round for a cuppa! I also have a godson & he is so cute Ask your Gp if you have have help over your misscarrige, it is a massive thing! How my sister has gone though so many I don"t know! they couldn"t find a reason for hers I think that made it worse! At least I know the reason I can"t have kids! I have ploystic ovries & it has caused big health problems in other areas to!

[Hidden in reply to Abby14]

I thought I would be able to cope with it but it has spiraled out of control to the point where I haven't been able to get out of bed. Your sister is a strong woman to have gone through multiple ones.

[Abby14 in reply to Hidden]

Yeah she is I am not surpised you have been though a hell of a time you need to get help, someone to talk to! Take care of yourself it is not your fault! these things happen! Life is so crap sometimes hang on in there! there is a group called miscarriage assocation, have a look on line.

[Hidden in reply to Abby14]

Is it on this website?

[Abby14 in reply to Hidden]

I am not sure! worth typing in in to check

[Abby14 in reply to Hidden]

I Just had a look & if you go to browse comunties & type in Miscarage there are loads of sites Helps if you spell it right! damm dislexyia! I hope you can find a site that helps you

[Justswimming]

Sorry for your loss. your going through tough times hope you feel better soon. Take care of yourself and be kind to yourself

[Hidden in reply to Justswimming]

Thank you. Just trying to take it one day at a time.

[hazyjane77]

I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage, and that then you had to deal with additional health problems. Having been through similar circumstances as you describe, I really feel for you and hope things start to look up for you soon 🙏🏼