Seriously no one cares and my ...

Seriously no one cares and my sister said yes it's true no one cares about one another but except it and go on. Everyone has thier own family and lives to think about. My life sucks so bad right now...worse than its ever been but I can't get out if this life. It sad to except no one is there for me or has ever cared for me. It's a lonely hard life

[DragonTears]

Hi SoTexas84,

I am sorry for how you feel. You are certainly not alone in this forum and there are loads of us that care about you and that you get to be happy because you deserve it. I think there are so many friends out there you just haven't met yet! Life is quite incredible like that if you give it a chance. You just have to go to the right places and do the right things, stuff that interest you and you will meet like-minded people. The magic of meeting like minded people is such a relief! It can be online too, maybe gaming? or just forums on topics you like? I joined a local rugby team..best thing i ever did! I have so many new friends now. Search online and see if there is a group around you for something you like. never mind your family and your sister, search out new people and put yourself first. You dseserve to be happy, have friends who care and understand you! Let us know how things go for you! Big hugs Xx

[August1 in reply to DragonTears]

Well said DragonTears!

[Hidden in reply to DragonTears]

Do you have any other online friend finding suggestions or hobbies. I've always needed and wanted genuine friends who will care and take me for me. I pray to God for those, but my depression and severe anxiety pushes everyone away, except family but Im starting to push them away because theydo mot understand and are quick to judge and put me down. I can't take it anymore

[Barb82401 in reply to Hidden]

I am trying to brainstorm ideas on how to create local groups for ppl with Anxiety and Depression. My 16 yr old is my driving force. She too pushes ppl away out of fear of rejection or something. I think we all do that sometimes. It's so hard to build genuine friendships and if it wasn't for my husband and teen girls whom I'm close too I would have anything real with anyone either.

[Barb82401 in reply to Hidden]

I have found good people to connect too from my love of gardening and I'm a foodie as well. Love local healthy food! Things like that but what you are interested in is a start. I find local gardening workshops or local food movement events and groups through facebook. Those are great social experiences, it's just me who doesn't build on those relationships. I blame being 'too busy' but it's just fear. But they are definitely good ppl!! Try something that attracts down to earth types of people.

[Hidden]

Hello,

What bad about your life?

Chat on here anytime at all, lots of us will listen.

[Hidden]

Oh I could have written this as I feel exactly the same about my own family. They all have their own problems and their own lives so I am very much on my own too. They wouldn't miss me that much.

And yes it is a cold lonely life without love. Sorry I don't have any answers, but just wanted you to know you weren't alone. x

[Hidden]

Thank y'all for taking time out to respond to my agony, yall of your responses help alot. Much needed

[Hidden in reply to Hidden]

We are never alone on here! x

[Hidden]

Lilaclil you are right, this is the only place in my life I can come to without judgment and to ppl who understand what we are going through. I think God for this forum and ppl like y'all.

[Imtrying713]

I try to believe that my family does love and care for me but they just don't understand. They experience these feelings in such a minimal way that it's easy for them to work right through. They can't begin to comprehend the severity I feel these emotions and how they totally take over my life. If my family can't understand it I have given up on having friends because they can't either. Even though this is just online it's good to have you guys because there aren't any support groups in my area. Without you guys I'd be completely alone

[Hidden]

Imtrying73 , you are so right. That we have each other to vent and share or feeling and issues with. I gave up on friends and am now giving up on my family. They just don't understand and only put me down and make things worse.